Client gave me a super thoughtful gift to thank me for winning their case. It's against company policy to accept gifts, but I feel terrible declining. What would you do?

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I'd keep it. You work very hard considering your role in the Marketplace. You didn't ask for the gift, it was freely given as a contribution of your services. Kindly say thank you, because refusing the gift would make the customer feel a way. ☺️

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Go to your leader, advise them of the gift, and ask for authority to accept. If it’s of nominal value and not a gift card then it should be ok to accept. If it’s a gift card, ask that it be donated to a food bank or shelter.

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Is it something you can share with the team?

Keep it

Keep it, sometimes it’s an insult not to take a gift in some cultures. At my old company they said no to that too but the catch was if they insisted then it was okay to accept but that’s me. I know when I give gifts I enjoy it and want to show appreciation. If I went through all that to decline me, I would be annoyed

Keep it. Who cares.

Keep it. The case is over and it’s not swaying you in any way there’s no harm in keeping it. I also doubt they will tell anyone at your firm they got you a gift so you’ll be fine

We have limited gifts here small value,$15.

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