Did you marry out of love for money?

Have you ever tried again with someone after a breakup? It's hard to find anyone to even start new with anyone in 40s, not sure about trying to fix something

Were your parents good cooks growing up? How has this affected your own relationship with cooking?

US vs Canada Which country do you think is better for work and family.. I have offers from both the places and my head is blocked deciding between the two. Please provide your views.. 🙏

Your one single line of wisdom can really help me in choosing between the two.

Where is it easier to make some wlw friends, Austin, TX or Miami, FL? 👀

As cops, how do you handle those kids who jump the subway turnstile?

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

Darcy is engaged?!

Hi fishes,
I have recently joined a product based startup and I'm unable to do tasks in the timely manner. I used to be productive before coming here and used to complete all the tasks before time. There is a lot of job insecurities coming in my mind, also there's a huge lifestyle change coming up in 4-5 months I'm getting married. Not sure how to deal with everything and expenses. What to do? All advices are welcome. Thanks

I am a career nanny who previously owned and operated her own nanny referral agency in Hawaii for five years...then Covid came along and wiped it right out of business since March 2020. I feel like my entire identity has been taken from me especially with Covid and vaccine mandates. I'm not looking to go 20 years backwards-I no longer want to be the nanny and work that hard however nothing interests me! I really don't want to go back to school and thousands of dollars in loans etc. etc.

Silly question but, how did you make close friends when you first moved to Miami? Feeling like a fish out of water, from Texas.

Traveled for the first time this week since COVID and got the dreaded “do you have kids?” question at team dinner. Him-“do you have kids?” Me- “No, I don’t.” Him-“Oh good! That’s the right choice!!” Me (awkwardly)- “I still have time… I’m not even 30 yet!” (Team member who knows about our 3 month and 6 month miscarriages looking on with THE saddest face) Ughhhh. He had absolutely no idea and meant well since everyone was talking about their kids but gosh…I wish this didn’t have to be a thing😩

What's everyone looking for at the moment (1) someone who can help you become a housewife/husband (2) partner in crime (3) travel buddy (4) marriage (5) marriage with kids?

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

Is it odd that I don't tell my siblings and siblings in-law happy wedding anniversary? Feels like one of those things that is their thing. Or am I wrong here?

*scores dream job* *is home first time since then* *is super eager to talk about job* Family: So any boyfriends out there? 😐

Moving to Philly Nov 1, just signed a lease in Queen Village. Coming from LA where I was part of a volleyball group and had a lot of options at the beach. Suggestions on making friends and being active (while still being respectful of covid rules & health of all)? 36 F

I feel like being a consultant has made my standards for finding a significant other go up astronomically lol now I expect them to be a similar standard as my coworkers which are smart, pretty, social and also same level of religiousness as me. I understand why everyone struggles to find an SO now

If a person were worried that their fiancee could potentially be with them purely for monetary gain, would it be wrong to test them before the marriage? By test I mean have a third party offer a decent amount of money to break off the wedding?

*I would like to be clear that this is purely a hypothetical question. I'm not in a position where I need, want, or could do this, but I have an unfortunate experience in the past, where an ex significant other was not the person I thought they were*

Hello,
I am a new mom and looking out, exploring companies in India which could help me look after my kid and career equally. A company which is empathetic and supportive towards a new mother.

I am a Product Owner with 6 yoe. Should i prefer a product based company for better culture? Your thoughts and company suggestions?

How do people connect?! To clients, friend's parents, other girls, etc. To me, it looks daunting! I TRY but can never do it, especially not if I don't live with them

Anyone in San Francisco today and tomorrow? I’ll like to grab a drink. M or F.

How do you fit professional/business development reading into your life?

When I do, I feel like it sucks up all my time and attention. When I fall off, it’s for weeks and weeks. Feel like I can’t make any momentum.

Hi Fishers,
I’m currently applying for Product Manager position with 3 Years relevant and 7.8 Years total experience. Searching jobs via LinkedIn and other job portals I could only find startups, with limited chances of my profile getting picked up. Is there a better way to know openings with bigger organisations or at least more organisations? Please advise.

What's the best barbecue in Houston?

how much $ can I make in tips as a bartender?

I am looking for the weekend jobs in the production department. I have done graduation in mechanical Engineering and my majors were lean manufacturing and statistics quality control. I am looking forward for these job. Everyone wants experienced employee. Right now I am working in custom machining workshop.

For the CPA license, is it about where you work? Can I live in NJ and work in NY and keep my license?

How long does it usually take to hear back after final interview?

Hi Fishes, Need you Help

I got offer from EY GDS kochi, in Business Valuations profile.

But issue is they have give offer for contact period of 6 month and mention that they will make me permanet employee of EY after 6 month contact if performance is good.

I am interested in profile but sure whether they will really make me permanent after 6 month contract is over.

I can’t find the link with the list of all the Corp codes for hotels. Can someone please post it here for me. Thanks 😀

Do we need to report every move made to the employer?

What is everyone's thoughts on Netflix and Peloton new CMO hires?

Was chatting with a CD at my agency and he mentioned that it’s harder for a middle age white guys like him to get a good job right now because agencies are hiring more woman and POC CDs. God that was uncomfortable. People are so not self-aware. Saying that to a minority. Really?? I bet it’s still easier for white men to get more offers than me. 🤦‍♂️

I wanted to ask a genuine question. Is it harder to actively pursue your dreams in LA today versus 30-40 years ago? If so, why do you think this is?And I’m talking pursuing your dreams with very little finances and no deep connections. No sort of nepotism. Lmk what you all think. Also feel free to share your path to LA stories.

Me & my roommate had a great outdoor area (terrace of about 200/300 square feet) in Brooklyn. However, it’s all stone pavers & I’m trying to figure out the best way to add some green/plants plus add additional privacy between the common & private space. Selfishly, my window looks out to all the air conditioning units so hoping for something with a little height.

Any recs for plants (either aesthetic or practical), planters, outdoor furniture that isn’t stupid expensive & won’t immediately die?

Is it acceptable to add completed trainings in the certification section of your LinkedIn profile? Like, who cares if you took a 2 hour leadership course in 2019.

Is it appropriate to negotiate a salary raise?
No one ever talks about protocol surrounding these things + I'd hate to shoot myself in the foot.

This is the longest I’ve gone without any sexual activities with another person. I’m dying.

Anyone in Bengaluru next week?

So met a gay guy through some straight mutual friends and we’ve been hanging out (group settings; I invite him to come hang out). I’m getting a lot of mixed signals from him but also I’m fine if nothing comes out of it. But it’s torture lol. Should I ask him what’s up or keep it chill? Don’t want to make things weird bcuz he’s fun to hang out with but also he’s tall, in shape, good looking, and has his shit together. We’re both pretty inexperienced with guys so I’m at a loss at what to do.

Where is it easier to make some wlw friends, Austin, TX or Miami, FL? 👀

Hi everyone - I’m just beginning my career and I’m very proud of the work I’ve done in accepting myself and living openly after having grown up Catholic. Through a lot of self-examination, I’ve started to realize the full extent of the trauma I experienced and held onto from growing up LGBT. I’m honestly surprised that this part of the process isn’t more talked about as it seems to be a relatively common experience. Are there any resources you’d recommend to help with this healing process?

Been seeing the same guy for 6 months and still haven’t had the DTR talk. It’s both of our first long term “relationships” since coming out and think we are equally scared to have the convo. Any tips?

Looking for some advice. As a member of LGBTQ, is it better to work for smaller or larger firms? In terms of Overall equality, culture, support & embracing diversity.

Also specifically at banking/PE/VC funds in NYC. Appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

Gays bottom, how do you clean yourself "down there". This year I started to bottom more. I spent the last 5 years being 99% top, so I don't know how to prepare myself. How much water is too much? And so many other questions...Any other technique?

Do you guys think there’s going to be more or less eligible bachelors once we get out of this pandemic? Or is everyone going to be in LTR 😂

Decided I finally want to try to get back into shape after years of neglect. I found a personal trainer a few months ago that can work around my schedule, but the quote I received last week seemed really high. It’d be 1-on-1 and at a private studio, so I knew it’d be slightly expensive, but the monthly cost is like $1,500 for 12 sessions. Is that reasonable? This is in a HCOL city.

I should have just got on PREP..

Thirsty fish, who’s in NYC this week? :)

I want to settle down and have a family, but I think I’m too picky.

Anyone going to Chicago pride this weekend?