Do you compliment other Black women at work/do they compliment you? Comparatively, do the white women in the office do the same thing?

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I tried to befriend (as work friends) two black women at my old ad job. They wanted to act stank 🙃, so I stopped being courteous and speaking altogether.

I don't work with someone right now. But most of my black colleagues are pretty distant and unhelpful.

Why is this the case?! I see this too amd thought it was me. A lnd if they are you're manager...smh. Just my experience.

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