My boss likes to give nicknames to the team, very annoying. He tried it today, should I let it slide or let him know I hate nicknames..

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If it's bothering you that much, maybe say that you rather your name than a nickname

Absolutely let him know you hate nicknames. Your name is your name, and if it's important to you that you be called only by it then he should respect that. Asking to be called by your given name is such a basic request and shouldn't be a big deal.

I would let him know. If it bothers you then ask for him to stop.

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