Do you guys prefer to date fellow bankers (or just people in finance) or date outside of the industry or no preference? Curious about male / female opinions.

Hi all,

There is guy living near my place and i find him really attractive. And sometimes I come across him in the gym. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How to handle this situation?
Any suggestions?

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

Any tam brahm single boys? 30 F, eats chicken occasionally and drinks socially.

Some annoying dude I didn’t like in college just joined my firm & keeps trying to message me. Do I ignore or what lmao

How are single people managing primal urges during this I wonder. Dont bother answering if you never got laid before this anyway. I am just curious as sexting & porn can only go so far

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Anyone ever get friendzoned by a guy and then have things work out for them eventually?

Whats the status on that "consultants dating app" or whatever that was talked about a few weeks back?

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

How many of you go to networking events mostly to date?

How many of you do some bicep curls before going out on a date?

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

Thirty some female looking for a friend and travel companion. I am a no nonsense kinda person and just looking for Pure friendship /(buddy) with someone who lives and likes to travel (no benefits , no relationship, no BS) . Visiting nature spots in the US and around the world is on my bucket list. Idea to have a travel pal who also has similar goals. Not looking for relationship or any sort of dependency.

Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

Can a relationship survive with two tops/bottoms? I met a guy I really liked but we are… on the same side

Bengali Male here, single. Living in Pune.
Is anyone interested to be friends?

Might end up dating, if we get along well!

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

What is good salary expectations in Abu Dabi for IT employee? Company name @bespin global

Thinking about transitioning from advertising (10 years as a copywriter) into public relations. Has anyone in this bowl done that? What types of roles should I be looking for?

Any ideas for an A2 -> S1 salary for NYO IT-A?

Bengali Male here, single. Living in Pune.
Is anyone interested to be friends?

Might end up dating, if we get along well!

Hello,
I teach 4th grade at a Christian school. I have been teaching for over 30 years but I have been at this school for 2 years. Since I have been working at this school it seems like everything I do in my classroom it's something wrong with it according to my supervisor. Recently, I was told that I am not getting a new contract for the new school year. I have to find a new school. I was told that I am not a good fit for the school.

Anyone have referrals for American Airlines?? Trying to crack into the airline industry. Also, more than happy to team up by sharing connections and networking. Lmk!

Looking for experienced Data Scientists and ML Engineers to grow my team. I’m head of Machine Learning and Data Science at one of the largest Fintechs. Shoot me a message if you’re interested. (ex consulting manager) Thanks!

Hi everyone! I’m currently looking for an Account Manager/Account Sup (title is interchangeable for us) ready to make a jump! It’s a small shop based in NYC... but would be remote for the foreseeable future. Please drop me a DM if you’d like to chat more!!

Hi All,

I am looking for a job in automobile after sales position. Please help me/refer me for any opportunity.

I have experience of 9 years in handling after sales operations.

Back when I was getting started in the food world, I worked flipping burgers at In-n-Out. A man came in and said the burgers he had gotten weren’t right. He dumped the food on the counter and then he started throwing them back behind the counter. We gave him a refund and then his demeanor completely changed. He was calmer and he told us to have a great day as he left us to clean up the mess he made.

Huron 🍣, what’s your world like right now? Just got a recruiting email, and know Huron’s reputation but little else. How do you like the firm, how are you measured, and do you want to stick around?

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GET ME INTO HIGHMARK

First year (ug level hire) and got email from apple recruiter. Would love to exit to FAANG but not sure I'm ready to leave BCG in my first year but maybe after 2-4. What is best practice?

Looking for an AD to comp up work I’m going on my own. I will pay you.

Is it worth it to spend 12 hours in Tokyo for a layover? Would need to change airports and would want to see something in the city. Otherwise I can book a different flight

Anyone received Sodexo amount credited in your account for this month??? Still I didn't get the Sodexo amount

Currently in Chicago, has been tough to look for roles in NYC, contemplating about quitting and just go through recruiting when I'm there... reckless approach?

Are you an elevator or stairs kinda person?

How much notice period does your firm require and has anyone quit without giving the full notice period?

Ever turned down a job bc of the commute?

Do y’all admit that you spaced out when called out of blue in a call?

First time posting on here… what do you like best about this app/what’s the best way to use this app to get its benefits? 🤔

What movie title would you use to describe your current job?

Does anyone have any insights on the Certificate Investment Performance Measurement (CIPM)?

If you're a vegan, do crossfit, and own bitcoin... which one of these things do you mention first when you introduce yourself to someone?

having one too many career moves on your resume is a devastating obstacle to overcome. so be thoughtful about your choices so you don’t end up like me :(

If you ever get a chance, invest in a tailor-made suit. They really are worth it.

It’s 2020. Is a small dainty nose ring still perceived as unprofessional in the workplace? I work in the finance industry.

How much discretionary cash do you keep around?

Do you wear a suit to work every day? How formal is your office?

Is the market ahead of itself? Interesting stat: 20-year S&P 500 annual return is just 6.9%, one of the worst periods in history. Both 15 and 25-year returns are ~9.5%, about equal to long term trends

Honestly, do you ever see yourself retiring?

Do you do DCF in ECM?

Who here actually owns a car and what kind of car is it?

I feel like some of ya don't really get it. Regardless of your group... Or even your bank... If you crush it... And if you're the best at what you do... You will get paid. That's the game. Simple.

Just curious, do any of you know which one pays better compensation/bonus has better trajectory, compliance/regulatory or risk management?