Do you use real names on dating sites? If not, at what point do you share real name with your match?

“You have a good looking face. But your body is absolute junk."

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

Hi all,

There is guy living near my place and i find him really attractive. And sometimes I come across him in the gym. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How to handle this situation?
Any suggestions?

does dating or social apps work or are we all fearful of each other?

Has your pipeline and dating slowed down or is it just me?

Any female fish want to hang out tonight? ☺️

On a scale of 1 - 10, what would you rate me as a potential dating prospect?

Age: 40
Gender: male
Occupation: lawyer
Height: 5'11
Weight: 185 lbs
Physique: muscular (benchpress in high 200s)
Salary: 450K
Real Estate: 2M
Smoking: never
Drinking: on occasion
Drugs: none
Other interests: traveling, cooking, smooth jazz, alternative rock, krav maga, and long walks through downtown

Any ladies want to chat with a 30/f?

Any advice 24m

Never dated before. What confrontational questions I should get out of the way?

Both looking for marriage. Get to know each other a little bit then bring up marriage with parents.

Girl I went on a date with talked about how much money she makes doing Monat MLM. Anyone know much about this? Legit or scam?

I dated someone 15 years older than me and he always lectured me about what did I do wrong. From small things like where to squeeze ketchup on my plate to big things like how to live my life and pivot to a career that his “friends” do so well in right now. Almost everything I did or said he’d follow with some criticism. I ghosted him after another lunch date full of such lectures.

Why is this bowl not called “singles..” or “dating...” smth? I literally didn’t know this bowl existed until someone just pointed it out to me🤔

How many of you do some bicep curls before going out on a date?

My weird flex: Colt is actually v handsome (I’m a guy fwiw)

35F Where do people meet these days? Tired dating apps but they did not work for me. Hard to grasp chemistry

Any M up for a chat?

How do you actually find a decent person to date when you’re working 80+ consulting hours? Like seriously...everyone I know who recently got engaged or married had been long term dating since high school or college. What has worked for people?

Best restaurant in NOVA for a date? I'll be visiting and want to wow this woman. Thanks!

31 F, looking to date seriously and have a true connection, Nj area

Thirty some female looking for a friend and travel companion. I am a no nonsense kinda person and just looking for Pure friendship /(buddy) with someone who lives and likes to travel (no benefits , no relationship, no BS) . Visiting nature spots in the US and around the world is on my bucket list. Idea to have a travel pal who also has similar goals. Not looking for relationship or any sort of dependency.

Anyone in Virtusa got intimation about H1B lottery results?

Anyone hit this morning on the Jordan birthday restock?

Have you ever snoop through your partner’s phone without them knowing? If so, did you find anything shocking?!

What types of work accommodations can help people with ADHD? I am starting to believe 35+ of having not managed my ADHD has really negatively impacted me in career growth etc. I'm realizing a lot of things about myself are because of the ADHD. I want better for myself and family but 1. I don't enjoy the same things forever 2. Imposter syndrome and RSD make me believe it's acceptable to start over in new places at low salaries. 3. Typical college won't work for me. 4. I also can't relocate.

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

Hello,

Can ex-TCSer join back TCS??

Dropping an offer of 95k GBP in UK (strategy consulting + relocation for family with 2 small kids) owing to comfortable family and job situation at home. 38lpa fixed. Wife working with 6lpa fixed. It's definitely a feel good - right?

My husband and I have saved up about $80K and it’s just sitting in our bank account. We thought we were going to buy a townhome but with the crazy inflated prices we decided not to since we like where we live currently (location could not be better and rent is crazy cheap at only $700 a month). How should we invest our money in the meantime while we save up for a house?

After 13 years in government, really want to get out. Anyone have experience convincing the rest of the world you’re not a “government employee”? I think hiring managers see government work and assume I’m lazy. Ways to get around this?

Does ibm give any Diwali gifts?

Account managers..Do your TCV targets include everything sold at your named accounts by other sales people or only contracts sold directly by you

Any sucessful ivf experience with DOR ?

Is it difficult to move without a reference. I got all the skills needed in current job market. But looks like getting a job call itself is difficult.
Or is it because of My H1B visa status.

Are the reports of the US running out of diesel in the next few weeks accurate? And if so, how will we transport food or anything else from one state to another???

I have got a offer of 22 lpa fixed from IBM in ban 07B.yoe 10 years.current ctc ~ 10.5 lpa.

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

M/Boston. I’m 49 so apparently it looks like my last year in this bowl…

41F, just found/joined this bowl and the bowl picture is cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣

36F in Houston, Tx. New to the area and looking for friends.

Question for F🐠. Someone asks you to keep them company via text, social media, maybe a phone call sometime etc. You'll be payed to do this. Would you do it? And what are your terms?

Anybody awake and want to chat? 35M here!

Having serious Monday blues! Who wants to talk and help? 35M in Chicago

Anyone ready for NYC gathering?

Anybody else struggling with the fact that nearly all their friends are coupled up?
Not in an envious way. Just... Damn, this sh*t can leave you very alone.

35F divorced with a kid. I think I will never get remarried or in a serious relationship again. Lots of men don't like dating women with children. At my age either the guys are past their prime, divorced/ing and have to provide half their income to their first wife. Many with kids live on the same street as their ex wives so they can be close to their child. I'm not comfortable dating guys like that. On the flip side there are the ones that were never married, which by this age cont

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

Any of Dfw female fishes interested in spending time over drinks/ dinner chat abot life, fun friendly conversation, may we watch a movie together. ? Brown Male 36 .

Where them 30+ ladies at? 25M 🙋‍♂️😉

Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?

I’m 35, and going on a first date. Thinking about bringing her flowers. Yea on No? And what would be the perception?

Any ladies that would like to go out for dinner? 27M 🙃

To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.