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The day is really for your relatives to celebrate you. The rest of the marriage is for you both.
M1 that’s not the case at all. My wedding was a blast. I’m not saying you can’t enjoy it, I’m just saying it’s an event FOR your guests. That is a very literal fact. Sorry you’re so emotionally triggered by that.
Pro
Tell her it’s that or for you to walk down the aisle before her to The Emperor’s theme from Star Wars, I think you’d get what you want.
Pro
IMO he should be able to do what he wants—*I* think it would be cool/fun/memorable.
I also wouldn’t bother marrying a SO that refused to work in something meaningful to me.
Tell her it isn’t all about her and if she gets upset tel her to calm down
Always tell her when you think she’s being too emotional
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Tell her Chuck doesn’t ask, Chuck tells.
Chief
Refuse to marry her if she does not acquiesce to your demands.
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I always wanted The Godfather theme on my wedding. Then I realized formal weddings were dumb and I would better off using that money to travel.
Was lucky enough that my SO also thinks like this and in about two years we went to Patagonia, Scotland, France and Netherlands.
We don’t even wear rings (also saved money on that)
Rising Star
Congrats on that!!!
If you ever do go the rings path, know its very possible not to spend $20k on rare metals with bad environmental impact to boot. I have a tungsten carbide ring with wood inlay that was less than $50. Plenty of options for women today outside of diamonds as well
This would be a deal breaker for me.
My now-husband processed in to the UEFA Champions league theme song. It was played by a string trio and most people had no idea what it was but it sounded great. It meant a lot to him and made a special moment for him and his friends who knew what it was. As an alternative maybe you could have it played during the pre-ceremony music/time guests are arriving, the bride will be preoccupied waiting for everything to start!
Maybe compromise on the theme to Walker Texas Ranger or Lone Wolf McQuade?
But does the song mean anything to her? Since this day is meant to be for both of you…..
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You my friend are hilarious. Stick to your guns. It’s one song as people are leaving? It’s 4 minutes that no one but you and a couple other awesome individuals will even notice; why would she create a stink over that??? If so, you have to reevaluate everything. I was almost married once and she wouldn’t let me have any control over the wedding (and even removed several of my close friends from the guest list without telling me to make room for her parents friends). Needless to say we never got married. If she can’t be flexible than good luck with her forever
Lol!!’ I just can’t stop laughing… So glad I am not marrying you!!!
Just so you know, Chuck Norris frequents this bowl. Tread carefully
Rising Star
Marriage is about happily making compromises in order to grow as a couple. Scary to me of it’s starting with one party not willing to accommodate their partner.
Play the theme from American Ninja rather
Never compare Michael Duddikoff to Chuck Norris
Chief
You two seem to have so much in common!
Chief
My partner does stupid shit and would totally do something like this. Doesn’t mean you don’t have a lot in common, just means they have a disagreement and need to work through it.
Maybe give her the option of playing it as everyone is leaving or for your first dance. My guess is you get what you want
Husband and I entered our reception to the theme song from Superman (and back down the aisle after the I-do’s to Queen’s You’re My Best Friend). It makes the memories of that day all the more special that we chose what was important to us, not what was expected or norm. Your guests will get to see a little piece of you and remember that forever!
Rising Star
It’s reasonable, assuming she probably picked everything else.
Is there a string quartet version of the song?
My husband wanted to play Polly by Nirvana at our wedding and the lyrics are not the best. We found a cover by Vitamin String Quartet and it was really pretty!