For the ladies: If you’re going on dates with a 33 y/o man with a good job, and if the date goes well and you go back to his place, would you “judge” if he has a roommate?

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Only in nyc I would say no. I would judge the condition of the apt though. Is it a bro frat house or is it clean? Does he have a bedframe? Hand towels? Couch? 4 pillows? Roommate is fine but living like a teen isn’t

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I use to not have any pillows. Now I have one. Because the other one was taken by my sister who has 4 pillows.

Agree with Wyman over here. I once booked a hotel room with my aunt. We had separate queen size beds. The entire time, she kept trying to find space to put the extra pillows. She said "why do I need all these pillows for?" She hid two of the pillows in a drawer 😂

Roommate is irrelevant. Vibe of home situation is the only important thing. For instance, a guy with two roommates in a modest but nicely decorated 4th floor walk up is way preferable to a guy who lives alone in a baller 35th floor penthouse with nothing but condiments in their fridge, no bed frame or box spring in the bedroom, and zero decorations except for a handmade collage of people’s faces with their eyes cut out.

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Meh, I’d take the penthouse. I’d decorate it for him.

Jokes aside, OP you’re good. Looking at your comments and situation. Zero issue IMO.

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What do you mean by a “good” job? Plumbers, Teachers, Nurses, etc are “ good” jobs.

Are you trying to that you have a high salary?

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NYC is different than the rest of America. People have all types of living situations here. Some people have 2 roommates but each pay $5000 to live in a baller duplex. It’s case by case here.

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A lot of people stay with roommates by choice, it’s lonely living by yourself in the city. As long as the place is nice, you do you.

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