Guys. Just not able to cop up with family stress. Married life is hell. Everyone in family want to satisfy their ego and no peace to me

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

How does a person change their mindset to be more positive? I feel like I’m meant for my job, but blame all my life problems on it….having no energy, being single at the age of 30, etc. and it seems like a never ending loop. I look for new jobs, realize I have a good job then am ok for a bit then start it all over again. When I’m off of work I’m fine and realize I have it pretty good. Only real negative is I can’t vacation with my family in March due to my busy time.

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

Anyone in the suburbs find it harder to make friends compared to the city? I don’t want to move back but I don’t know what else to do..

Looking for perspective: Did money play a role in evaluating whether someone could be your life partner?

AITA: My friend keeps asking me for financial advice. I set up a budget for her and have her concrete advice. And I field all of her investing questions. But still, she continues to be reckless with her money. She’s 42, single (no kids), and making $100k+ and is still living check to check.

I don’t want to waste my breathe on helping her since nothing seems to be getting through to her. AITA?

I’ve been a family caregiver for four years, and now look to return to the workforce. I realize that this will be a bit difficult, especially during these economic conditions, plus other factors, such as being an older employee, etc. I updated my account with a few job sites, adding on the fact that I took time off to care for a family member. I would appreciate some advice, anything that would be helpful.

Mid 40sF, recently separated, seeking intelligent convo. For the love of god, do not be dishonest. I don’t even care if you’re married and lonely. I get that. Looking for same age range.

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

How do you communicate with your parents? How often?

Are there Christian men out there that don’t want kids?

Husband and I would love to have kids in soon, but we're both super dedicated to our careers. Have any of you stepped away from your career for a couple years to raise your kids? How did it go?

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

Is Argyle, TX good place to buy home and raise family?

Why are relationships so difficult!!!

My relationship just ended yesterday because he wanted to “focus on myself and figure things out.” My relationship before that ended (~2 years ago) because he wanted to focus on himself. I can’t help but feel like it’s because something is wrong with me. What am I doing wrong?

I've been so lucky to have tons of friends giving me hand me downs but it seems like it might be too much if I accept everything. What are the absolute necessaries that I should accept multiples of and what can I pass on?

At what point does it not make sense to buy/ build a bigger home? My husband dislikes our house immensely (was his with former wife) and wants to move. Only owes $180k on it, we’ve been together 6 years and thus I’d rather just remodel. It’s the only thing we disagree about - moving or staying. He doesn’t want to invest one more cent in this house.

Any rec for Valentine's day in DC?

Anyone switch to Metromile from Geico. Since the pandemic hit, I don't drive anywhere an maybe do minimal miles on a grocery trip. Stayed with geico out of loyalty but the price of loyalty is 3 times what Metromile is charging

18 children dead!! What is wrong with this country?

At MBB, level for level, do implementation practitioners make the same as generalists?

Hi fishes! I recently graduated. I got campus placed as associate analyst consulting in Deloitte in my 5th semester. It's been an year there was no communication from the Deloitte apart from the letter of intent. Now recently I received a mail saying we'll be onboarding in phases and onboarding will be completed for 2022 batch by February 2023 . Legit they are making us wait for another 6 months....like wtf is thissss!??!????!!!! Your opinion/advice/suggestions are most welcomed!!!

It's freezing tonight bitter cold. I just ordered Chinese and I'm not sure if that was a shitty thing to do. I think they need to make money so if no one calls that wouldn't be good. I did tip well

I’m really liking DMZ mode in Warzone. I think they have some real potential with this game mode. I like that it’s not as sweaty as Tarkov but still has some elements of it. Still in beta but I hope they realize they have a potential gem here.

Looking for a job in PMO role please help

Where my fellow government attorneys at?

A friend literally asked me if I could help her with her divorce. I was like, I'm a tax lawyer who bills 2700 hours, so, no, not even emotionally

Anyone in the Pittsburgh area? Want to try microdosing psilocybin but don’t know where to find any fun-guys and would appreciate help

Massachusetts freelance but go to NY/travel for work occasionally. I am looking at marketplace insurance and leaning towards a Tufts plan. Anyone have problems with Tufts? The BCBS higher cost but there does not appear to be a good reason. I’m afraid of some of the smaller places/never heard of. Transitioning off Cobra with United Health. Anyone have advice?

Does anyone here work in-house? Or as an outside GC to a company?

Anyone moved to Canada from the UK? Would like to know how culture and pay compare (esp within the big 4) and whether it was overall worth it from your personal experience?

Can i resign HCL after 1 week of joining? How it will impact, Do they blacklist me? How many days i will get the reliving?

Hi Guys,
Help needed!!!
I got offer from HCL for the position of Lead consultant with(23.49 fixed + 3.51 variable). I have 8 yrs of experience. I want to know if this position is same as Team/Tech Lead ? As in my current organization I am working as Team Lead. And also how is job security and work life balance in HCL?

I need a suggestion.
I onboarded wipro with 20 Lakh salary and now I got offer from Tech M 23.5 Lakh salary. I am confused whether to join Tech M or not. What happen if I will not login to Wipro as I have only onboarded there. Is it worth to abscond Wipro for Tech M for 3.5 lakh annually extra salary pay

Anyone has given the BIE interview recently? If yes, can you please help me understand what sorts of questions were asked?
Amazon

Guys, ditch your briefs and trunks.

Switch to boxer briefs. They're the best.

Someone recommended me them 2 days back and I wonder why did I not know about this since past 7-8 years.

Thank me later 😂😂

Has anyone tried Polo Tshirts from Nautica?

Reviews?

Guys thoughts on #NNN..??
Any 1 lost already..?

Is it okay to trim your chest hair?

Note: Not the entire chest, just the hair visible in case your top 2 buttons are open/or the hair which is above your vest area.

Hello bros,
Need one suggestion. My close friend is gng to marry soon. So I need some suggestions to what I should give as a gift. Until now I gave gift with group. This time I'm giving by myself.
I can't afford expensive things.
Thanks in advance!!

I am feeling like going for Pee again and again... Is it sign of Sugar...

This platform has serious bug... Something fishy in it... Someday they may released buggy app and reveal our identity...

Hey guys.. anyone looking for good friend... Getting saturated with wfh :(

Let's make this group better. Suggestions?

Thinking to drop a few YT videos on fashion, clothing, grooming etc

Relaxed fit cargos or slim fit?

Wearing for the first time.
Do not want to look Chapri AF

There's no interesting bowl for women to discuss things they want

⚠ OFF TOPIC ⚠
GYM 🦈 please suggest diet chart for fat loss (vegetarian) & (office going)

1. How can I build 6 pack abs on vegetarian diet and I'm not interested to take creatine or any cutting steroids. How much time will it take.

2. How much weight should I lift and how to improve weights in gym for weight training.

6 feet height
80kg weight
22% body fat
4 months gym

Best Clothing brands. Drop in your suggestions:

Shirts:
1. USPA
2. Peter England (Formals)
3. Allen Solly ( Comparatively cheaper than other brands)
4. Superdry
5. Levis

Polos:
1. Superdry
2. USPA
3. Calvin Klein
4. Allen Solly
5. Tommy Hilfiger

Tshirts:
1. Levis
2. Superdry
3. USPA

Wallets:
1. Tommy Hilfiger (Buy from Myntra)

Briefs:
1. Calvin Klein
2. Jockey - Only Tactel series

Trunks:
1. Jockey - Only Tactel series
2. Calvin Klein - Established series

Vests:
1. Van Heusen
2. USPA

Hello Men, do you still think, that you should switch to domain you like instead of what you are doing currently. Please tell why or why not. I know switching to a Domin we like will take us a bit back in our career but still want to know.....will you take the risk

Are morning erections healthy in men?

I used to get strong erections daily, but off lately I have been missing out on getting boners in the morning.

Is this normal?

Should I be worried?

I get erections otherwise throughout the day, but the morning one is the hardest and longest (duration)

Is Bumble spotlight/premium/boost worth it?

Peeps, what's your fap frequency? (no of times Done daily/weekly)