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You asked, so here it is. The "opposite view." I married halfway through college when I was 20, held low-paying positions for most of the first 15 years, had three children, finished my college degree and started my professional career in my mid-30s. I was a virgin when I married and my husband is the only man I have ever been with. Who is happier, a woman who has numerous lovers in her life or who only has one man she truly loves throughout her life? I know which answer is right for me. Now in my early 50s I have to say I am enjoying my best life. The children are out of the house on their own and there's a couple of grandkids to wear us out and keep us young. The problem with having the freedom of living alone when you are a young adult is that it often leads to you living alone when you are older. I am not saying you cannot be a fulfilled woman unless you are married or have children. I am saying that, for me, I can't imagine any other life that would have been happier.
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Another option is to get married or be in long term relationships but not have children. You both can have mostly independent lives and focus on careers but also have companionship when you want it - traveling, dinners out etc.
When you find the right person, a relationship (in any form) is great! Your priors probably not it.
29 and it sounds like you’re putting off relationships forever? You have the rest of your life. Your future husband might be divorcing his first wife right now. Live your best life and keep an eye out from time to time. If it doesn’t work out that’s okay too. Every married woman I know that’s 50+ is miserable.
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I think it depends on the person - the situation will be what you make of it but it’s important to find likeminded people
I’m turning 29 this month too! When’s your birthday?