Has anyone ever hired a matchmaker? Or know of a good match making service or personal matchmaker in NYC? (M, 34 NYC)

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Any F in the Dallas area looking for casual dating options?

I’ll start hooking up with someone with no intention of dating them because of red flags, but if the sex is good I want to lock it down for the future (even if we are not compatible in our personality, I’ll start to see them in a positive way and flirt more since it makes the sex even better)! The guy starts to think I want a relationship (which is half true) and then distances himself. Anyone else go through this cycle?

26 M Still virgin. Is this considered strange/awkward?

Late twenties M here. I like to travel, go on hikes and am pretty easy going. Any f wants to chat and see how it goes?

Any single females want to grab drinks/dinner in the city?
28M for reference!

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

Ladies - few girls in finance date guys in finance, even though each one of you are dating material. Top 2 things wrong with guys in finance? Be nice...

Poll: single / dating / partnered..? The stresses of the traveling consultant lifestyle and the fickleness of the gay male have made it nearly impossible to date consistently. Do y'all agree?

I'm on a beach in Florida and a guy walks up to me and is like "you're from Texas, huh?" And I'm like "yeah, how'd you know"? And then I realize how he knew...

I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

POLL: how many FaceTime dates have you been on during quarantine?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

New in town, where do I go to meet people (for friends and dating)?

Considering moving to DC, where are the best places to live for a single 27 y/o male?

Thinking this is the year i iA find someone, prayers for all of us single 🐟 wanting to take that next step!

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Starting at BCG in about a month. How have those working long hours able to find their SO? Should I give up on looking for an SO and try the toxic hookup culture? 23/M for reference.

Last night I slept over my boyfriend’s apt. We are sexually active together but this time he woke up at 4/5am and started fingering me and eating me out. I was somewhat awake but I don’t know how to feel about this. Thoughts?

Should those of us who write code be taking a moral/ethical responsibility for what the code is used for?

What is a good credit card to get for travel?

Since starting in January I have:

Spilled water on my laptop and backed into a parked car less than an hour apart.

Got a ticket for a rolling stop vs. full stop.

Can I start January over?

Anyone here has taken the PMP certification ? Is it worth it over MBA and if you're managing projects in Advisory?

Hello friend,

Any one abscond the notice period in EY.


I Just join - 3 month.

Any one can help me for same what get happened if I do same.

Thanks for you advise

ZS 🐠 - can you receive sponsorship for MBA prior to having tenure of 3 years? If not, what is the downside of applying after 1 or 2 years? I am coming in with 3+ YOE in consulting, so my application would be competitive for next fall (or ‘23)

Any advice for an extremely young, incoming Merrill FSA?

Which consulting company has the highest level access to WWBD in pharma?

Hi Fishes,

Citiustech healthcare technologies is hiring for multiple roles. Java,C#,.net,Angular . Training will be provided for senior software engineers under Java impact program with attractive bonuses.
DM me if interested..

Hello Fishes, I'm a UI/UX designer with ten years of experience and hold a GL offer of 25 lakhs. Is it a good company to join? Kindly do reply with job security perspective. 

Advice & resources? My spouse and I are starting to make good money (ages 28 & 31, $105k & $70k) with $10k in savings (we were hit hard financially this year) and 2 car payments.

We live in a cheap apartment ($1.3k) that is sh*tty. Don’t quite have a down payment (especially not in ATX). Is it dumb to rent a house for a year at $3k/month while we save up again?

We both didn’t come from $ and are figuring out how to not be idiots 🙃 tbh we would prefer to rent forever but that feels dumb???

I miss the Friday evening post. :-(

Bhai log kaisa hai Accenture? Got level 10, security family group hai. Bata do jara doston thoda ghana jo bhi pata hai, dua dunga.

After asking for docs , how much days it will take in cognizant for further process ?
Please let me know

I'm studying proton therapy (radiation) and it's the most amazing thing I've ever seen. The fact that we can target tumors with so much accuracy is incredible

How's everyone doing this weekend?

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

Anyone interested in taking a walk in the park this upcoming week?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

Any ladies want to go to happy hour tomorrow? 💁‍♀️ here

How about everyone plan a get together on a weekend in a bar know each other and build this community?

What’s everyone a/s in this bowl?

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

how do we successfully and organically meet great people & partners 😵‍💫😭😪

Would folks be interested in a NYC singles of fishbowl party? I know a solid venue

Any 40+ women here interested to make new friends? 40+ man here.

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

Any female fish want to grab a drink this weekend?

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

@guys, is it weird if a girl you don’t know DMs you and says she came across your profile on Hinge/thinks you’re cute? Is that creepy?

Context: I swiped right on a guy but he hasn’t matched with me so not sure if he X me out or just hasn’t checked the app (it’s been 2 days)

Any NY F fish want to grab a drink this evening? 31M here.

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!