Has anyone successfully had a relationship with a close coworker - and if so - how did it go? Worth it?

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Worked with a copywriter on a project; I was the account lead.

We’ll be 7 years together this summer, own a home together & still herald the work we did as some of our best (candidly, the bar is low lol).

Hopefully this is a bright spot among the horror stories, which for sure exist and are likely the rule vs the exception. But it can happen! 💖

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