Do I work at a toxic workplace?

We had a team touchbase where we as a group were asked our concerns regarding year end. I raised my concerns about staffing/expectations (the team is 75% new) since last year was demanding with us being up to 1 AM the day before deadline.

My director was on the call but not my VP. My VP reached out today and said he doesn’t appreciate hearing such comments on the grapevine but I was confused b/c all i did was answer the question I was asked.

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No one can answer this question without more context about your team and how you typically interact

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From now on, forget about safe spaces. Think about it: the problem you’re pointing out has been around for decades. The only way you can open your mouth without hurting some senior leader is by first speaking in private with the senior leaders and talking about solutions. Because, trust, the senior leaders know there is a problem. But they also know that, so long as not everyone is visibly frustrated, things will operate normal. A problem with culture is not as easy to fix, compared to let’s say a market competition.

Toxic

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Sounds authoritarian

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Maybe the VP meant that if you had escalated to him directly earlier he could have fixed?…

I’m assuming there are several layers of hierarchy here between OP and VP. It’s VP’s job to ensure that everyone is aware of that direct line of communication. Not saying that what you said isn’t true, but the tact used by the VP is horrible.

Only worked till 1am one time? Bruh

Or until 1am, even if it was once. Don't normalize that bullshit

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Time to move on and away from this

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