What is your suggested approach at working with a socially misguided partner? Ignore/Let it slide? Throw it back?

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Just ignore. If too much to ignore, switch jobs. No point in trying to “throw it back” as that can only lead to more tension between you two

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How socially misguided??

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What do you mean?

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