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Manger had been real nice to me lately. Not really mentioning small things that I have screwed up even when I think I did. Also manager thinks I am really busy so is giving small ticket items to other team members. Either manager really values me or they don’t care about me any more and pretending they like me while looking for my replacement. Thoughts?

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I think you’re maybe overthinking it, pal.

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Yea, ppl can’t really afford to lose folks rn.

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Definitely

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If you’re really concerned you should just talk to your manager. Ask for honest feedback on your performance, what their expectations are of you and also share your thoughts and goals with them.

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