Hi Charlotte fish! My wife and I are about to move to Charlotte and looking for a nanny. What’s a good site to find one? Any recommendations?

To those with an anxious attachment style and have trust issues due to past childhood trauma you’re still healing from: How do you keep yourself from thinking your significant other is going to cheat on you when she/he goes to a party or out while you’re miles away? I’ve been in therapy to help, and trying to distract myself but my anxiety is keeping it from working and don’t want to put that pressure on him because I’m trying to work on it.

How did you meet your closest friends in Atlanta?

What do we think the firms can to support our trans brothers and sisters?

A friend literally asked me if I could help her with her divorce. I was like, I'm a tax lawyer who bills 2700 hours, so, no, not even emotionally

Why do we always tell people “Be the best version of yourself before starting a relationship?”
I feel this is wrong…first, if you’re someone who constantly wants to be better, this doesn’t work. Also, what happens when you’re going through things and you’re not the best version? What happens is…the going gets tough and then one person leaves the other.

Anybody willing to help a broke kid out with some mock interview prep?

I think teaching on line was more work than face to face learning but I am willing to learn new skills for a new normal that helps keep families safe. However, do you think that for the future a combination of the two will work best for our students especially in light of how our society is heavily information based?

Why is it that a lot of couples I know living in big cities are in open relationship?

Is the Bella Vista area a safe place to live and raise kids?

What is something you found about yourself after moving away from family that you would have never imagined? For example the food you like that you never imagined before or sports or the kind of person you date?

Completely irrelevant still imp for me

Pls advise if someone can

After 8 yrs of relationship he is saying parents are not agree cannot marry....till yesterday he was like I'll never leave you..now he wants to break everything

I can't imager my life without him..what should I do

No one can feel my pain..pls don't make fun of me..

My adoption application was approved!! I’m hoping to bring her home this weekend. Any advice for a first time cat parent is greatly appreciated! 🙏🏼

One of your roommates (and a close friend that you’ve known for years) has a flight to catch. He has a suitcase, a duffle bag (no wheels), and a backpack. In order for him to get to the airport would you:

A) offer to drive him to the airport that’s about .5 miles away (5 minute drive)

B) tell him to order an Uber since you know his work would pay for it

C) tell him to not be lazy and walk half a mile to the nearest public transportation stop, with all that luggage, and take public transit

I have a friend who told me he sought treatment for alcohol abuse 6 mo ago. We talk a lot and I try not to judge or ask too many questions about his progress, just wanting to be a supportive friend who doesn’t pressure him. Today I brought him to a very laid back picnic… there was drinking but plenty of non-alcoholic alternatives, and it was a very chill group. Toward the end of the day I noticed him drink something. Should I have confronted and stopped him? Should I bring it up now? Guilty now

Why is Maddie trying to prove her love so badly??? He’s not ready! He’s conflicted 😐

Comforting others:
When someone tells me bad news regarding their health, I say everything I am supposed to say (I’m sorry to hear that, I’m here for you, etc) EXCEPT “everything is going to be ok”. Because I can’t guarantee that and I really don’t know if everything is going to be ok. I was taken aback recently when a friend told me I am calloused and cold-hearted for not being able to say those words. Is she right? Should I start saying this for the purposes of providing comfort only??

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

I want to thank everyone in this bowl for getting me trough the nightmare that is PCOS related fertility issues. After 1.5 years of trying, two rounds of medicated IUI, accupuncture and every other homeopathic treatment available, a vanished twin…. Hubby and I welcomed our little girl on Friday at 37 weeks. She’s perfect. It was conversations in THIS bowl that gave me the hope and advice I needed to get here. So thank you, all of you- and to those that need it - hang in! There is hope.

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

I think living a frugal life and aiming to retire early makes a lot of sense.

Recently, some of my family members are diagnosed with a rare diseases. When you look at the statistics, these are so many of these ‘rare’ conditions and cumulatively they are not rare.

These family members conditions made me reevaluate how I want to spend my life. I am 35 this year and I can’t decide if I should take great vacations with my kids or keep living a frugal life. Do you have the same dilemma?

How much parental leave does your company offer to employees? Please include location, size of company and type of business. We are a SaaS company in NYC with 60 employees. We give 16 weeks paid for “primary caregivers “ and 6 weeks for “secondary “ caregivers. I want to advocate for everyone to get at least 12 weeks.

Anyone ever have experience negotiating a new offer to include unvested 401k match and stock grants from your current employer? I hate leaving money on the table but there are some good roles out there. I’m not fully vested in my current 401k yet and my stock grants haven’t matured yet either. This would be at a global director level.

Hi Guys , can somebody please let me know what is this Core values round in Sapient

Hi Fishes, I would like to know the Designation structure in Infy..which Infy Designation would be the equivalent of Senior Consultant in TCS

Looking for referrals. SAP HCM consultant with 1 year experience. Any vacancies?

Biggest email pet peeve? Mine is people who end with "Let's discuss."

Hiring a Social Media Manager. Looking for someone with strong lead generation and conversions background. Any suggestions as to best places to find these talents?

What are y’all thinking about Kanye West/Ye?
Adidas following others dropped him today for his consistent anti-Jewish stance.

Are your students talking about it?

Steve Wozniak isn't afraid to critique Apple devices, and said he couldn't tell the difference between the newly released iPhone 13 and its predecessor, the iPhone 12.

Hi Fishes,
I have offers from below org. with almost same CTC-
Birlasoft
Atos
Wipro

Tech stack- ETL developer
Exp- 7 years
Immediate joiner

Kindly suggest which one is better?

Hi fishes, I need some guidance.

I am currently into the SAP Security domain and I absolutely do not have any interest in it. I am planning to shift to development and have started on some courses on my own.

My question is, is there any future prospects in SAP UI5 and Fiori? Since my background is in SAP, I assume it will make a domain switch easier.

Or should I move into the JS-React path since there seems to be a lot of demand? But my worry is about my lack of actual work experience

Has anyone else felt like they were blindly drinking the “kool aid” about their PG/firm’s culture? As a 5th year associate who has only ever worked in one firm and has no point of reference for different “cultures”, I sometimes wonder if I’ve been brainwashed.

Hi all,

I got an SMS on my phone from authorised verification agency for TCS IT, for virtual verification of my permanent address. But the address given there is wrong. What should I do? Should I provide my Aadhar card details and pictures for verification?
They have already completed physical verification of my address.

Anyone from EY consulting get into H/S/W?

Hi All,

I would like to know the process of PF withdrawal in CTS, please help.

It’s been real uncle D, but the bag has called

Sometimes, I feel so proud when I look at my old codes and think, "How can I think something so beautiful like this?" 🤩

What are the chances of me getting unemployment after quitting? I left for solid reasons that went unaddressed for months so will that have any impact on my eligibility?

Anyone looking for a 2bed apartment for rent in Uptown Charlotte starting Aug/ Sept ?
Can be furnished / unfurnished based on your preferences

What’s the best area or suburb to live in Charlotte?

Anybody else’s fire alarm rang at the Springhill in Charlotte? Fine, I’m really just hoping that the pretty consultant next door sees this and we can grab a drink at the bar downstairs

Potentially moving to Charlotte next June! Never been. Anyone have apartment rev commendations? Looking for 1 bed in a nice area!

What other companies are paying 120k+ for 3 years of experience in Charlotte? Need to see if I am getting a good market rate or need to look else where.

What’s the average 2nd year Manager salary in Charlotte?

Anyone want to grab a drink this weekend? 25 M

Hi Team, can we use this bowl for the folks who are looking to move to Charlotte and have questions regarding rental apartments etc?

Moving to Charlotte in the fall and will be in Charlotte in a couple of weeks to look at apartments. Any recommendations for buildings in the South End or NODA? Looking for a large (1,300+ sqft) two or three bedroom apartment.

What would you say is a fair salary for a Sr Cons at mid tier firm in Charlotte. A bit broad, I know, but trying to gauge how I’m doing. Just got an offer and I’m not familiar with salaries here.

Hi all! Has anyone worked at BAC in risk before? Any feedback / advice? Looking to transition from big 4 consulting to BAC risk in Charlotte. Thanks!

Thinking about moving to the Charlotte area within the next year. I’m recently married, looking to start a family in the next ~3 years. What areas do you recommend outside of Uptown? Right now I’m eyeing Mount Holly or Huntersville.

How’s everyone enjoying this weather?

Moving to Charlotte with 3 year old near Palisades area. Please suggest good preschool. Is it too late for enrollment this year, waiting for house closing to provide local address to schools.

Curious about the opportunities people have found to successfully transition out of finance and maintain a somewhat similar pay. Duke energy? Lowe’s? 🤷‍♂️

Which firms have you been burned by in Charlotte in the past, whether in terms of experience working there, culture, interviews, or even as a buyer?

Charlotte folks.. Anyone knows of Drs who provide Green Card medical tests under $200ish? The couple of people I reached out to quoted $425+.

Rate in NJ is around $200, thus the search for something similarly priced.

Anyone who wants to join me for a hike in crowder mountain over the weekend ?

Looking to network with other consultants (probably software or project/program management) in the area.
Where are the good places to look for networking opportunities?