Hi Charlotte fish! My wife and I are about to move to Charlotte and looking for a nanny. What’s a good site to find one? Any recommendations?

My boyfriend just came out to his mom and she’s been horrible to him... he’s no longer allowed to go home... I’m traveling for work. I want to be there for him. Any partners with advice?

How are my fellow gov lawyers doing with $$$ right now? Anyone have financial strategies or tips to providing for a family on a non private sector salary? I want to stay at my CA DOJ job as long as I can but also want to have kids. Live in LA

A friend literally asked me if I could help her with her divorce. I was like, I'm a tax lawyer who bills 2700 hours, so, no, not even emotionally

Been in the same relationship since i was 17 years old, now I’m 23. I want to go out and live my life the way i want too. Is this bad?

How can I help a parent with depression/anxiety get help while not making them feel worse?

I felt like a walking zombie during thanksgiving, barely eating and barely talking. My family is small and I told them ahead of time my relationship ended. I focused on my niece and nephews, cried when I wanted to and slept from 8pm-noon for the last 5 days. Showered once or twice. That’s the best I could do and that’s OK right now. I’m back in my apartment, just trying to take it one day at a time, and not re read his texts too much. My birthday is Thursday 🙄

Stopped a fwb situation. But staying away is so hard. 😔

What's the hardest part of being a working parent in law? My wife and I are considering trying to get pregnant.

At what point does it not make sense to buy/ build a bigger home? My husband dislikes our house immensely (was his with former wife) and wants to move. Only owes $180k on it, we’ve been together 6 years and thus I’d rather just remodel. It’s the only thing we disagree about - moving or staying. He doesn’t want to invest one more cent in this house.

Looking for perspective: Did money play a role in evaluating whether someone could be your life partner?

I’m tired of feeling like I have to have relationships with all my coworkers. I get how it’s beneficial to some people, but im here to do a job. Outside of those responsibilities, I shouldn’t be expected to act like your best friend.

Family luddites ask about my work and immediately behave annoyed when I start to answer.

How did you meet your closest friends in Atlanta?

I don’t feel connected to my parents at all. After spending 15 years here, I am unable to connect to their extreme right nationalist views and the extra emphasis on the connection to our roots.

How do you all ask parents for supplies without bagging them constantly?

To all the divorced folks out there...

1) What went wrong in your relationship?
2) What's one piece of advice you'd give to us singletons before jumping into a long term relationship/marriage?

I like to learn from other people's mistakes 😅

For the F 🐠 - is it really that hard out there in your city? What’s been your biggest challenge with finding the right guy? Any regrets not making it work w/ an ex or friend zone guy from the past?

Men marry their second mom.

What are the best social clubs in the area?

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

Anyone heard of those Norm Core studies, and where I can get my hands on them?

If looking into making a move to corporate/start-ups, how would you suggest looking at what’s out there and deciding the areas you’re most interested in?

Started at my first real firm job after quitting a nonprofit and I’m loving the new firm! But I’m the only one with pronouns in my email signature… should I bring this up? I think everyone here is cis but it would signal inclusion when we send emails, no?

I’m entering salary negotiations at a Fortune 500 company and am looking for trustworthy resources for salary data that I can share with the company if they ask where I got my numbers. I know Glassdoor, but what else?

Any new referrals for customer Service Manager in banking domain?

Ntt data vs EY gds? Which is better?
Ntt ctc - 10.92(10 fixed)
EY - 9.5 fixed

Please help- priority is wlb and growth

Hello Fishes,

Can somebody please refer me for the following Job ID: req367550 in HoneyWell.

Years of Exp: 3+

Skills: Tableau, SQL, BigQuery, Python, Google sheets

Thank you

Hi fishes, need your suggestion.
I have 2 offers from accenture and marsh mclennon of 12 lpa each. My current company kpmg is offering me 10 if i retain my self. Current package is 7 only.
Having 5 years of exp

Please suggest.

Does your job offer a pension? Care to share? I’m wondering if ours is competitive and also wondering whether to stay or leave for greener pastures?
Population: around 35K; 5 years to vest; retirement age 65; pension calc based on average of last 5 years’ salary times years in service times multiplier; multiplier is 1.25%. TIA!

Wondering if anyone can give insight as to what salary range is for an insurance compliance role as an IC3 or similar?

What is the average salary of manager- analytics in Cars24…?

I’ve noticed vaccine resistance among pet owners is growing and I’m starting to lose the will to educate people who are worried about “canine autism.” How hard do you try to inform the misinformed?

What has your experience been with attending therapy to help you cope with the stress of the job? Should I look for a therapist that specifically deals with high-stress workplaces?

What is a good site/company to look into if I want to get into audit contracting /seasonal. CPA, NYC, National firm

New to options on fishbowl - I have a call itm with Robinhood that expires tomorrow. If I don’t sell it, what happens? Will they exercise or am I better to sell it?

What’s the average 2nd year Manager salary in Charlotte?

Hi Team, can we use this bowl for the folks who are looking to move to Charlotte and have questions regarding rental apartments etc?

What would you say is a fair salary for a Sr Cons at mid tier firm in Charlotte. A bit broad, I know, but trying to gauge how I’m doing. Just got an offer and I’m not familiar with salaries here.

Anyone want to grab a drink this weekend? 25 M

Anybody else’s fire alarm rang at the Springhill in Charlotte? Fine, I’m really just hoping that the pretty consultant next door sees this and we can grab a drink at the bar downstairs

What’s the best area or suburb to live in Charlotte?

Looking to network with other consultants (probably software or project/program management) in the area.
Where are the good places to look for networking opportunities?

Just moved here and don't know anyone!

I'm looking for some people to hang out with and explore the city a bit. I live near uptown and I'm 25 and male.

Moving to Charlotte in the fall and will be in Charlotte in a couple of weeks to look at apartments. Any recommendations for buildings in the South End or NODA? Looking for a large (1,300+ sqft) two or three bedroom apartment.

Curious about the opportunities people have found to successfully transition out of finance and maintain a somewhat similar pay. Duke energy? Lowe’s? 🤷‍♂️

Does anyone know what is up with North Highland’s recruiting process? It’s been stop and start with them for the past 6 months and I’m... confused

Hi all! Has anyone worked at BAC in risk before? Any feedback / advice? Looking to transition from big 4 consulting to BAC risk in Charlotte. Thanks!

Charlotte folks.. Anyone knows of Drs who provide Green Card medical tests under $200ish? The couple of people I reached out to quoted $425+.

Rate in NJ is around $200, thus the search for something similarly priced.

Potentially moving to Charlotte next June! Never been. Anyone have apartment rev commendations? Looking for 1 bed in a nice area!

How’s everyone enjoying this weather?

Anyone here work in quant finance at the charlotte big banks? Was curious to know salary ranges for quant analyst positions.

Anyone who wants to join me for a hike in crowder mountain over the weekend ?

We should do CLT Consultants happy hour! Comment if interested and we can plan it out after the holidays.

What other companies are paying 120k+ for 3 years of experience in Charlotte? Need to see if I am getting a good market rate or need to look else where.