Hi guys, O design brand identity. Hook me up for freelance jobs under 500 bucks. On standby.

I drunk texted. It was bad. I wasn’t an asshole, I just said my feelings because I was frustrated about them being avoided. And then I got hardcore ghosted, which is expected but still harsh. Do as I say, not as I do. 💔

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

28M moved to Munich. Any F from DE or EU interested to connect please DM.

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Any females for weekend casual meet ?

any single asian men in here interested to drink

How do I consistently make my girl finish

F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

Any single women like houses?

Quick poll for single guys : how often do you have random hookups?

I started dating someone mid-Jan and the other night he told me he’s falling in love with me. I said it back (I am). But now I think I’m freaking out that things are going to change between us and ever since, I’ve been completely acting out and making fights out of absolutely nothing. How can I stop this???

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

Best dating app for india.?. Sick of being single in wfh

Let’s start by posting age, location gender (a selfie if you want!) I’m 30/M from nyc looking for something more serious these days in terms of dating..

Male.35. 5’3. I go to the gym regularly. Any advice on improving my chances on dating apps and real life from the ladies.

Case 1: complaining about a date insisting on picking up the check as it makes them feel less independent.
Case 2: agreeing on 50/50, then being upset about why the date never picks up the check or treats them after 3 months of dating

In both cases, posted 5 days apart, they were advised to find someone else as it seems their date doesn’t respect their values (case 1) or value them enough to spend money on them (case 2).

Well, just 🤯

Anyone ever asked for a sign on bonus in the form of vacation days - so you don’t have to wait like 6 months in order to take 2weeks? Or ask for reduced pay at first to accelerate the accrual?

If I decline health insurance at IBM, do I get a cash payment? I have an offer from another firm that gives me $5k... does IBM give anything?

(Wife has free health insurance via her city job)

How common is it for a firm to contribute to an HSA on an employee’s behalf, and what is the largest contribution you’ve seen that an employer gives?

How long did you study before the CSCP exam? Any advice for someone who just enrolled?

Hi Fishes,

Looking for a job on urgent basis request you all to please help with referrals..
Having 1.8 yrs of experience in FPnA domain.

Really appreciate your help.

Anyone happen to be familiar with the 5300 Glencoe Park neighborhood/properties? Like it’s location to DT (job) but also want to make sure it’s good for my soon to be grade school kids.

Hi everyone, I work for large startup (300 employees) and I have been asked to develop a Progressive HR manual template. Some examples include gender neutral restrooms, lactation rooms, signing off emails with pronouns, and etc. Any tips/links for resources to help would be appreciated.

What's the expected starting salary, sign on, stocks etc. for senior principal with google cloud value advisors? MBA, 20+ YOE, 8 years exp in strategy consulting, location Chicago.

I have an offer in PE VP role in Citco and JPM and I am at cross road on which is one to company to choose. Their pay is very similar but JPM is offering an attractive signing on bonus. I need a honest advise on which is better between these two firms.

What are my chances in IT if I join HPE now? I heard they use mostly legacy tools and tools limited to HPE only. Does it affect my job search in future?

@cisco @vmware @HPE

How to start a startup?

How to start a startup using an existing company as a parent company ? Will they help me anyway

Shaved my head! I might as well do something crazy if am going to spend more than a month at home. (M here)

hi, fishes,

for 9 + years exp is 32 good pkg with AD role in UBS?

What is the biggest challenge you are currently facing being in tech, right now?

I just need some Brugal rum, Aventura or Romeo Santos songs on repeat all night…

Do others know of businesses who intend of disposing if GMP Manufacturing locations in the upcoming 24 months?

Anyone know why BMS is hiring like crazy? During an economy like this, and right after an acquisition I'd expect more internal reshuffling than external hiring.

So many questions about staying or leaving. That window is now closed. Stay where you are. Stay inside. Wash your hands. FaceTime loved ones.

How much should a data engineer make at 2 YOE in a tier 1 city?

Living in NJ and may be able to choose NYC as my home office. People who live in NJ can choose NJ / NYC office, which one did you choose?

NJ office: no NYC tax, don't have to file 2 state return. Live in NJ so auto assigned to NJ office currently.

NYC office: NYC tax on paycheck, easier commute, possibly higher pay?

Team dinner reccs? 5 ppl, $125 budget p’

Does anyone want a ticket to the Mets/Phillies game

Anyone want to grab a drink?

Why does every delivery driver stand right next to the counter while they wait for their order. I wish they would just stand to the side and wait so they don’t bottleneck order collection

Can someone recommend a good photographer for headshots? I’ve tried two so far with mixed results. Don’t really like the final product and most are not great for a professional setting.

Thoughts on living in FiDi as a first time NYC resident?

Anyone wants to hangout today around 6:30 near Washington square park?

Lets meet and grab a haunted halloween drinks?

Desperately looking for a job in Organizational Development 😩 it’s been almost a year since I finished grad school and I’m so embarrassed I can’t land anything.

Anyone at a tier 2 firm willing to connect? I’m in M&A tax now at big4 but looking to transition to a non-TDD consulting role. Not specifically looking for a referral but would like to bounce some ideas off of someone/possibly look at my resume

How dangerous is crown heights these days?

Appointment for marriage license seems unavailable on Project Cupid entirely. Anybody know why or have tips? We’re looking to get married early July… (finally pulling the trigger after waiting for pandemic to go away)

Any WFH people have a comfortable and supportive office desk chair that is also cute (female and this will be going in my bedroom)?

Any NYC firms hiring entry ux/prod designers?
Trying to help my husband make the transition into tech. He’s finished the Google UX cert and has done a little freelancing designing landing pages in Figma.

anything going on today? hearing what feels like more than normal amount of sirens going by (in east village for reference)

Anyone in dc? Let’s get fucked up

Can someone recommend a bar with a dj in queens? Somewhere with a frat boy crowd lol