Hii guy's, yaar i love a girl ,but she said that it won't work bcz her parents want her daughter to be married with an NRI .Mostly they prefer UK (all her cousins there, she also wants to settle there )
She asked me to move to UK ,but i dono how to get a job there .
I am having just 2 years experience(big data) no special talent , feeling low of all time in my life . I feel like i am gonna loose her .. I lover her lot, i imagined my whole life with her...
What to do 🥺 now?

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My take on this:

1. No doubt you love that girl, but from what you’re saying, that girl doesn’t seem to love you.

2. The girl is using her parents just as an excuse, but the girl also wants her husband to be settled in UK.

3. Why doesn’t your girl get settled in UK and get you there as a dependent? If she loves you, she can definitely do this. In UK, you can work on dependent visa.

4. Just discuss this above point 3 with her and listen to what she says. If she’s not in a position to consider that option, you get an idea of what she thinks about you and your relationship. She is just behind NRI status.

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if she would have loved u she would never have any issue with u living in india
Nri status is more important than you

think about it

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Kuch bhi..pyaar sirf tum karte ho voh nahi..nahi toh aise conditions nahi lagati

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seedha bolo na UK mein job chahiye, itana kahani kahe bana rahe ho

likefunny

As per your experience, you should start preparing for gre/gmat. Do a one year masters at UK and then get 3 year work visa. Also, look for scholarships and education loans.
Meanwhile, also carefully consider other stakeholders in your life like your parents/siblings.

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TC1 i want to study abroad but spending too much is not my cup of tea!!
Can you provide any guidance how i can get decent college without much fees?

From what you have posted, could infer that she doesn't have love for you like yours. All she wanted is a UK settled husband. She is just using her parents as a dumb excuse.

If she is that adamant to get settled there, why can't she get a job in UK and help you to get a job there on dependent visa ?
Re-think about your life decisions 🤞

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Yaar please koi ek Job dilwado UK..Mann nhai lagra uskey Bina 😓😓

Ireland me ek course kar le

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