Best Co-living PG near Bagmane Tech Park Bangalore or in Whitefield?
Moving to Bangalore for 2 months with wife.

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

To those with an anxious attachment style and have trust issues due to past childhood trauma you’re still healing from: How do you keep yourself from thinking your significant other is going to cheat on you when she/he goes to a party or out while you’re miles away? I’ve been in therapy to help, and trying to distract myself but my anxiety is keeping it from working and don’t want to put that pressure on him because I’m trying to work on it.

I’m happy with my relationship but the thing is I never really have a spark with the girl. Can someone relate or explain? I’m not sure if I should keep doing this. Maybe I’m just in an comfort zone now?

Our 5 month old started daycare about 5 weeks ago. We’ve already had to keep her home for 2.5 of those 5 weeks due to catching various illnesses (croup, rsv, brinchiolitis, etc). Both my wife and I have been sick most of that time as well (gotten it from the baby). Wife is thinking we get a full time nanny for the next 4 months to help the baby build antibodies. Cost aside, is this feasible / worthwhile to go thru the effort / finding the right fit, only for 4 months?

Dropped off my kids to school this morning and just felt unsettled. It’s so hard to concentrate on work today.

Anyone know any good divorce lawyers in NYC?
Thanks in advance 🙇🏾‍♀️

Anyone marry their law school sweetheart?

my sister died this morning. I posted about her in a past post. Alcohol addiction, liver failure and then it taxed the kidneys too much, she went into cardiac arrest at 9 am and they could not save her. She was 51. Sad day for sure. Feels odd that she is no longer here. I just wish she could have had a better future.

Men marry their second mom.

Important question! Any strategies for getting out of work zoom happy hours? Other than ignoring requests and not showing up, which has been my MO so far. But it’s getting a bit awkward.

Just 5 weeks left of school before summer. Is anyone else having trouble keeping their students engaged?

How much of a nest egg would you expect a couple to collectively need in order to retire at 40 and live relatively comfortable (not lavish)?

I want to give a Christmas gift to the manager of the gym I go to. She’s awesome and I just really appreciate her. I can’t think of any ideas though! Can anybody think any good ones? I do not know much about her personal life except that she’s a single mother.

Comforting others:
When someone tells me bad news regarding their health, I say everything I am supposed to say (I’m sorry to hear that, I’m here for you, etc) EXCEPT “everything is going to be ok”. Because I can’t guarantee that and I really don’t know if everything is going to be ok. I was taken aback recently when a friend told me I am calloused and cold-hearted for not being able to say those words. Is she right? Should I start saying this for the purposes of providing comfort only??

Love is patient and kind.
Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. 
Love is not rude, it is not selfish, and it cannot be made angry easily.
Love does not remember wrongs done against it.  
Love is never happy when others do wrong, but it is always happy with the truth.  
Love never gives up on people. It never stops trusting, never loses hope, and never quits. 
Love will never end.
Humbled, convicted, but thankful. Our Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit love us this way!

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

I have a friend who told me he sought treatment for alcohol abuse 6 mo ago. We talk a lot and I try not to judge or ask too many questions about his progress, just wanting to be a supportive friend who doesn’t pressure him. Today I brought him to a very laid back picnic… there was drinking but plenty of non-alcoholic alternatives, and it was a very chill group. Toward the end of the day I noticed him drink something. Should I have confronted and stopped him? Should I bring it up now? Guilty now

I ve been in Houston for like 8 months now. I am introverted, and I live by myself. I literally have no friends here outside of the folks I talk to at work.
I need help.

Realizing that I am way too old for nights

I've been so lucky to have tons of friends giving me hand me downs but it seems like it might be too much if I accept everything. What are the absolute necessaries that I should accept multiples of and what can I pass on?

Hey , i want to know the transport facility in cognizant Gurgaon as i am not getting proper information from HR for Day shift role. Can someone please help. Its an urgent request.

Anyone a CFP as a side hustle?

Looking for a job change in a branded company ..YOE 8, Business Analyst, bangalore location.

Any Managers or Seniors Managers.Please DM in case of business analyst opening only in branded companys

Can anyone refer me for java developer role 3.11 yrs exp

Got a verbal offer from a big agency a week ago and HR said written offer will come by EOD but no email. They did background check last week. Followed up last week no response, what should I do?

What free PE news sites/blogs do y’all follow

Hi, do you have any recommendations about an onboarding process for remote workers? Also would be nice to know for people on site.
What do you think that is a must here? Looking for improve employees satisfaction and an efficient way to test their skills in the first weeks/months

Can anyone give me a few recommendations for remote job searches I've exhausted LinkedIn and indeed and really need a career change

For anyone applying this year, selling my applications for CBS, Yale, and Tuck - DM for details

Have been unemployed for 7 months- it’s been pretty hard, anyone know of opportunities? Mainly business strategy in tech. 10 yrs exp, 5 years post grad school, extensive startup experience (open loc)

Was at an event recently. Seems like advertising really only cares about diversity as it applies to white women. I think this industry wants to stay white.

PwC S3 in FS audit NYC, up for promo this year. What’s the M1 and M2 base range? M1 more specifically. Thanks!

Curious what firms are doing to keep people socializing during COVID. I miss my coworkers but I'm sick of zoom calls.

What’s a great idea to do for second stream of income? I work overnight and a online college student however, with all this I feel I have so much time on my hand through out the day.

Are all the fish in this bowl dead? Did everyone migrate to a better bowl?

Does Persistent pay a full performance bonus?

Hi fishes, What is genesys training in Infosys ? Does Contact center training in Genesys will have any career growth? Infosys

Infosys offer 40lpa incl VP. Current company is retaining with 36lpa fixed. Will Infosys revise offer if I show revised compensation from current company. 12yoe/AEM Infosys Tata Consultancy Capgemini Wipro Cognizant IBM Accenture

Did anyone from INFOSYS after accepting got their CTC revised by showing them a higher offer? Infosys

Is digital marketing as reputable as tech jobs? What should be the salary range for 9 years of experience?

Any openings for .net MVC 9 years experience pune location

Thanks in advance

Hello Fishes,

I have joined hcl on 24 th sep 2021 and my last working day here is 18th May 2022.
Today I received my provisional full and final settlement and the payable amount is negative -11454. They are recovering the full AMPB amount which I got from September months.
I have heard from this platform only that hcl stopped the recovery police but still I got the negative fnf.

Hi Folks,

Recently in sodexo, another card got activated that is multi benefit pass and it says i can use this money for apparels,bill payments and at petrol pumps.. is this real? No physical card is given yet.. did any 1 tried this card? if yes, could you please guide me?

I had applied in Infosys but the application was rejected after scheduling interview. They said they will but they did not. My ex colleague tried but refer me later but it says another application already exists.
When can I apply again??

Hi Fishes I've recently started working at Accenture and company has offered me (9.1 LPA including fixed and variable) but I've got one more offer after joining Accenture from Capgemini (in Malasiya - KL) of 7000 Ringgit/ Month. Shall I leave Accenture and join Malasiya or should I stay in Accenture only? Please help me.

Hello Guy's,

Need one information, after getting new hike letter if we resign then will we get new incremented salary on month end since will be serving notice period.

Hi,
I have offer for Salesforce Commerce Cloud B2C Developer position from these companies-
1)Infosys
2)Mindtree
3)TCS
4)VGL
Which one should I choose?
Thankyou for your help and suggestions.

Hi fishers, Can we renegotiate salary with Cognizant HR? If so what should I keep in mind as I am intend to join CTS only As the other offer which I am holding needs relocation I have already accepted CTS offer letter.

Cognizant -16. 4 LPA including variable--

Have another offer with 21 LPA all fixed.

Thanks in advance.


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