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I hear you. It is never ending. But leaving won’t help you, at least not long term, but it will allow them to win. They subject you to the crap to gatekeep. And your leaving means helps to ensure that it will never improve for the next crop of Black & IPOC lawyers. A circle jerk that keeps us back & lets the barbarians thrive. You think those failed up mediocres like JD Vance, Josh Hawley, Amy Coney Barrett & Trump ever think they shd quit? Never! Your future children, nieces & nephews, upcoming lawyers need you. Call out the BS. Why not? You want to quit anyway. Once you get comfortable in your skin you’ll become more comfortable in the space. When you are more comfortable in the space, you’ll be more comfortable taking up the space & demanding respect within it. Speak! Chances are, you’ll discover the earth didn’t shatter & they’ll learn to check themselves before taming reckless to you.
P2: Absolutely failed up mediocre. He, like many racist fascists try to hide this by using a few multi-syllabic words in an imperious tone which can fool Trump’s uneducated. We see guys like this in our profession all the time.
Unless you end up starting your own business, I think there will always be office politics and backroom games played.
Sorry that this is happening to you. Unfortunately, this sort of stuff is prevalent in other industries as well. It is more about picking your poison. At least we get paid well to tolerate this BS.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Please consider other areas of law and smaller firms, nonprofits, government agencies, contract positions and even solo practice. You might find a better fit and perhaps even some deep satisfaction in your ability to do great things, albeit maybe for less financial gain-at least in the beginning. I wish you all the best.
Thanks everyone! Appreciate all the responses. I'm planning on leaving this firm anyway and have received offers from other places. Have yet to accept one of these offers.
I'm just afraid of the cycle continuing at other places, though I'm no longer some naive young mid 20s kid anymore. I've seen a lot and know what I'll be getting myself into if I accept one of these offers at other places.
Needed this!
I’m very sorry you’re having to deal with this. However, keep in mind that most of the things you’ve mentioned exist in all fields from Hollywood down to your local elementary school. It’s up to us to change these environments.
Heavy on the existing everywhere. I was a teacher for a bit: you don’t know backstabbing, racism & microaggressions until you’ve taught in any public school district!
I'm sorry you're going through it right now. I've definitely felt that way at times. I will say that having a circle of colleagues you trust around really does make a world of difference.
I've been in the legal field for 17 years, 8 as a lawyer and its the same sh*t everywhere. Just know you're older, wiser, and more confident and set up boundaries quickly at your next firm. I have and its going better, so far.
I am literally right there with you friend. No advice, just in solidarity