How do I learn to accept my role in the company and "slow down" career wise. I am used to quick promos and my new company is hiring someone with equal product exp to a more senior role than me, likely due to his 3 more yrs of overall experience.

I am having my first child in the next few months and I think it would be good for me to learn some patience in my career growth and just enjoy my current role. I personally think going on leave will hurt my near term growth but should I even care? TIA

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Career isn't everything. Enjoy the time with your spouse and kid. When you're ready to up your career, find a place that has the opportunity for you.

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Kids clarify career path

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If you do it right, in few months your kid is going to take a much larger part of your future than your career ever did. Relax, survive, you’ll have a completely different perspective on life.

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Chill until you have your baby. Maternity leave gave me a lot of time to think about what I wanted from my job. The opportunity cost is higher now; before I was fine to waste 50 hrs/week in a job I didn’t love. Now time at work is time I’m not spending with my family. TLDR I came back from mat leave, spent a month feeling things out, applied to other jobs and hopped when one felt right. I also wanted to time it so I could onboard when I was done with nursing, the things you think you won’t care about become different when the baby is in your arms.

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I took leave for my first child just as I was being tasked to incubate a new product and team. The job was there where I left it and my team stepped up to fill the vod while I was going. Only collateral was that one of my employees left because he got a taste of leadership and he moved to another department in the company to advance his career. But that's a win for everyone.

Do it. You'll be fine.

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