How do you avoid getting overwhelmed with matters? I think I do good work, and am very happy when I have one to three large projects taking a lot of time. But I start feeling panicky and at sea when I have a lot of things going on and emails flying back and forth, even if individually nothing is that hard or time consuming. Trying to get myself in a niche that fits my work style but I know it won't always be possible.

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I decided to care less and just take one bite at a time. Surprisingly it helped.

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I simply do not get overwhelmed

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I always have a notepad that has a list of things I need to get done. Then in the morning, I make a a mini to do list with 2-3 things that I should focus most of my time on. That’s helped me

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This is exactly my problem. The work can become so unbearable when things get like this.

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It doesn’t help that people tend to give arbitrary deadlines or make certain things seem urgent when they’re not

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It gets easier the more you understand/know how to delegate.

You eventually get used to the chaos.

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