How do you deal with condescending mansplainers? I was walking through analysis. This guy was like did you write this code. Wtf do you think. So annoyed.

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I stare quietly at them for a few seconds and continue with what i was saying 🤣🤣🤣

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I also would stare at them and make the time uncomfortable and then continue talking

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