How do you deal with feeling too ‘slow’ for your job?
I have adhd which results in me having even worse imposter syndrome than others. I didn’t always do the best in school until I started getting medicated. Therefore, I have pretty bad self esteem. I’m always feeling like I’m learning things too slow at work. I also overthink every move I make so I take forever. Is this job just not meant for someone like me? On the plus side, I’m really good at concepting. But for everyday tasks, not so much.

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You’re right to feel that way, and I guarantee you’ll get the hang of it. Medicated too, a little more than 8 years into my career and a bunch of award winning campaigns later, I can tell you that within the first year (or even the first months) it will all become much easier. Until then: fake it till you make it, and keep Hey whipple squeeze this on your bedside table.
(A more recent book recommandation: Dan Nelken’s A copywriter self-help guide)

You might also have a lower tolerance for bullshit. When it's done fast, it's often been done. Great insights and ideas usually result from beating the crap out of your system, sometimes with lots of research involved.

If you didn't belong there, you wouldn't have been chosen for the role. Trust in your capabilities, you were hired for a reason. I hope things get easier for you overtime, but don't be afraid to take a step back if you need to.

100% agree, you were hired for a reason and sometimes our brain likes to mess with us and make us think we're not good enough - but it's not true! I'm sure you're doing just fine

I know it will take some time, but you should start reworking that thought pattern. Challenge the idea that being slow = not good enough. I would rather take my time and move slower with things because I'm more likely to catch mistakes that would be otherwise overlooked and be much happier with the final product. Focus on the quality of your work and forget the rest. Don't let imposter syndrome get the better of you.

I feel this in my soul. I have ADD and I just feel constantly overwhelmed and behind. Hang in there! You have to trust that you know what you are doing and you will get the job done. Don't overthink it.

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