How do you deal with the people you drunk texted one too many times? I apologized and I broke contact the person did not contact me back

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The process is for you to clean your side of the street, there should he no expectation of a specific response, good, bad, or indifferent.

No response is actually far better than it could go, time to move on.

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I would leave them alone. You're likely not going to solve anything by contacting them. After doing step 8, ask your sponsor what they think.

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Ok thanks

I’d suggest “live and let live” and the “living amends” approach; communicate in a positive manner with people going forward.

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