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Congrats OP. I'll have 31 years on August 17.

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I'm at 3.5 yrs ✨

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15 years.

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Wow! That's so great @sapient

How do you define sober? Like never a drink at all? I’m in the process of rethinking my drinking.

@spm great question! For me sobriety is the total abstinence of drugs and alcohol. I can’t drink in moderation. The only thing that has worked for me is abstinence.

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