How to deal with a boss who likes to publicly belittle your comments, discredit your thoughts, and so on.. cont.

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Let the air out of his tires metaphorically .. and literally

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Have a conversation with them, document it, and if it doesn't change take it to your career counselor.

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That's awful. Definitely document and try to ask for direct feedback in private. He should be ashamed for calling you out publicly

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P1 - Why do you assume that the person making belittling comments is a male?

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Where's the rest of the OP?

What firm OP, it’s easier to give more direct next steps with that. Also how long have you been at said firm. Without more detail, talk to your personal people manager assuming your boss is your engagement manager. Tell them your frustration and gain their thoughts on what to do and next steps. They should be your confidant and person in your corner.

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