How to make friends at 40 outside work? I am not married and have no kids, not planning to have any.

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Good luck.

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Can vouch from personal experience:
Join an interest group - pickle ball/tennis/racquet ball
Attend charity galas
Local networking events
Opt for shared experiences such as a trip or ‘timeout’
Volunteer at an animal shelter/rescue

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Tinder.

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