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I broke up with my EX mainly because the relationship with my child and her was not the best, it sucks but I have to look out for my child, So far I am able to do the things I can do now. It is not the I am not Hoeing around but the simply fact that I can hang out with friends and go watch my son play baseball is a great feeling now. I feel at peace now, in somewhat of pain because of the breakup but I am at peace now.

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As the son of divorced parents, it makes me happy to hear that you put your kids first.

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Agree your child is lucky to have a dad like you

I can’t tell whether you’re hoeing around or not 😂

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