I am definitely not gonna risk my career flirting with a coworker. Being fired or cancelled for that sorta thing would ruin not just my life but my family who I support. Lots of other fish in the sea over at competitor firm🧐

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I think you need to understand there is a difference between sexual harassment and consensual flirtatious banter. I’m kinda worried that you don’t. It’s giving “you can’t do anything these days”

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Not taking that chance in the workplace.

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No one gets cancelled or fired for consensual flirting. At my last place, two co-workers met and got married FFS. The problem is that people don't know the difference between consensual flirting and "I don't feel comfortable telling you I'm not into it because you're more senior than me or I don't wanna rock the boat because you could make my life hell". Read a room and you'll be fine.

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Nah I am good. Its not for everyone and whats consensual to me might not be for the other person. Mess with the wrong one its clipped. A risk that can be avoided

Who gets fired or cancelled for flirting lol? Or are you talking about more than that?

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