I deeply love feelings of love and i want to marry and build my family but am scared of after marriage problems - inlaws having nature of complaints and demands and husband changing from supportive to treating me like follow what his parents says and also not giving me emotional support.

How should i work on my fear and become confident on marriage?

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Guys before sympathizing with divorced women please be very careful, these days almost 95% of girls are filing false 498a by mentioning false dowry harrasment case just because they cant adjust a bit with inlaws and with provocation from her parents and black coats.
If husband does not budge by this false case and be slave to wife, then she will file DV act and crpc 125 and get maintainance from husband even though wife is working.
Remember indian court only support women and even courts are sure that women is lying on face of court they dont punish women at max they might only put fine of 500rs.
SO MARRAIGE IS BOON FOR WOMEN AND A CURSE FOR MEN in india due to biased laws, this generation is facing this issue exponentially.
Please read about laws like ipc 498a(now BNS 85,86), CRPC 125 (BNSS 144), DV ACT AND Hma 24,25 and do some research on ground reality of these cases. All theses laws are enemy for men and these are the missiles deployed by feminist to destroy the indian family.
BEWARE OF DIVORCED WOMEN(she might have filed false case against her previous husband and maybe looking for next bakra 😂😂)

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I can vouch for this since have faced this and paid a huge ransom in the name of maintenance.

I have fears from the perspective of being a husband. Girls these days are less interested in taking care of in laws. Also the false domestic violence and dawry cases haunt me.

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+1 @Deloitte 1. Harsh reality 🙌

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Don't overthink!

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Is it a mutual divorce or u filing 498a, crpc 125, dv act and them getting divorce?

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See no one knows future, whatever in destiny that's for sure shot going to happen. Risk , struggle sb jagah hai isliye thoda dimag laga k koi select kr lo baki kismat mai jo hai woh hoga.

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Time will heal things. Start meeting ppl in single mixer event held in Bangalore, pune and Mumbai. Meet and talk to them. You will find someone

I agree .

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Thx a lot

Can't agree more

Like u other PPL (husband) has emotions... don't think all the time all the time think abt ur wellness ..

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