I got laid off on the 16th, and while I am looking for new jobs, I genuinely don’t know if it’s worth it right now. Continued-

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I have a two year old at home and she is just...two. Crazy person. Needs attention. I have no idea how I would be able to work at all from home for more than a couple hours at a time. I do not have an office space. My partner is also home, but she can’t take our kid anywhere more than a walk, which is still hard at 2. I could maybe lock myself in the bedroom, but she would know I was there and would probably bang on the door and cry. I had a promising round of interviews this week but then they put on a hiring freeze for the next month. With the federal increase of unemployment I’m wondering if I should just not work right now. I see some boring looking freelance gigs around but I feel like the days are hard enough without trying to factor emails and social ads into it. We are not loaded by any means but we did get our debt really dwindled down before this and I’m getting a small amount of severance and have some savings. I just really think at this age it would be so hard. She will play on her own a little bit but hardly, and I can’t just let her watch tv all day long...or can I?

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If I were in your position, I’d figure out how many hours I could feasibly pull off and look for PT freelance. Or just wait it out. My kids are 3 and 6 and they still need constant supervision. I cannot work when they are awake and not being cared for by my partner. The safety and well being of my children is just something I’m not willing to compromise on and I’m sure you’re not either.

This is all really hard. I’m sorry you’re having to weigh these choices.

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I would compare the $$ of max hours of freelance you think you can manage vs $$ of unemployment, if you can figure that out. It might make sense to do the latter with no childcare. Then when it looks like daycare is going to open, shift your focus to freelance leads since the ft hiring is likely to be tough. Just one take. ❤️ good luck!

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If you can financially swing it in the short term, I’d say wait it out til we all have a better grasp of what the future holds. There’s enough stress/disruption going on, starting a new job seems like it would just add to it? Just my 2 cents, and again, if it’s feasible financially. Trust your gut.

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I wanted to check to see how you’re doing and if you decided what’s best. It’d be good to hear since it seems like others might also be in this situation

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I’ve decided to just sit tight for now. It seems like the situation is still unfolding, and while I would of course prefer to have my usual income, we will be ok for a few months. I think I would struggle with trying to be onboarded to something right now or even do some mindless part time work. If I had a big house where I had a downstairs office or a big back yard, maybe I wouldn’t feel so overwhelmed by the thought of trying to work with my kid home all day, but we live in a small place in a city. So trying to see the gift in this situation and have some family time. I may change my mind in a couple weeks, but that’s where I am today!

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I just can’t decide If I’m being a baby who has to suck it up and make some money or if it’s better for everyone involved to not add more stress to the mix. Like I could work at night but I’m going to be a super miserable tired person. If I still had my job I would of course just figure it out. But now that I don’t...

And I just wanted to say that I have such empathy for all the working parents. I truly don’t know how you are doing it. I am not happy I lost my job, but a part of me is truly relieved I don’t have to work right now. Even with my wife at home who is also not working, we have our hands full.

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