I still get mildly irritated when people call me the name of the “other” black person they know or work with. I’m sure I’m not the only person this happens to

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My black director actually did this to me this week. Lol.

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It’s quite normal on a team or office that lacks diversity

Yeah, I'd be mad. "No, that's the other black guy."

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