I want to take my son on a cruise without my wife and daughter. Totally time away would be 72 hr. My wife is worried about the cruise because it’ll be tough for me to get back in case of emergency

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It may be time to assess the odds of things happening, anxiety, and learning to relax.

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DD1 and P1 are on the right path. This isn’t about emergency planning (unless your other family members have extreme health issues or something), this is about control and boundaries and trust. That’s an entirely different conversation that I am guessing she doesn’t want to have.

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Back home. What’s my best argument against this? I mean. What’s going to go wrong? And even if something does go wrong. The cruise stops in the Bahamas. I could just fly back from there if necessary.

Holy. Build a healthy boundary, assign delegates and take sometime off. You aren’t saving lives here.

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Also note she is fine with us going on a trip to a land based destination and not going on a cruise.

Issues aside, that sounds like a great idea and good work trying to get some quality time with your son. 🚢🏖

How would she feel about the entire family going on a cruise? This could just be a concern about limited medical options on a cruise which is real concern, even if remote. They only fly the helicopters out on the most serious of cases on the ship and if it’s a problem at home you don’t get off until you get to port and flight options in the Caribbean are limited.

It’s a cruise on a luxurious ship, you’re talking about it like you’re taking him tight rope walking over the Grand Canyon

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