I was born 15 years after my siblings and was called extra by my family. My brother kicked me out of his house when i was a kid as punishment for my mistakes. My dad passed away 8 years ago today who kinda cared. My gf broke up with me. Deloitte fired me. No one wants me... I just want to die

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Please talk to someone. It gets better. 1-800-273-8255

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There’s no doubt that abandonment can hurt. Take some time to reflect and reset. It’s much easier to say, but it’s fine if nobody wants you as long as you want you. Nobody gets to Deloitte sitting in their ass. That means you have skills and a work ethic that is marketable. Beyond that, you’re a person that’s fortunate enough to exist in the world, which mean YOU MATTER.

Take time to feel the pain of what seems like constant rejection. Kick, spit, cuss, do whatever you have to do to get it out. Then, look in the mirror and remind yourself that you’re valuable even if it feels like no other person can see it. That’s fine, let nobody believe in you as long as you believe in yourself. You are the only one that can define your worth. You can do this, the internet believes in you ❤️

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Hey OP, I’m sorry.

Hey OP. Hang in there. It DOES get better. Take it one day at a time. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me.

Buck up and drive on! You got this!!

You are loved

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