I was just promoted to partner at am law 100 firm that I’ve been with for the past 8 years, but suffering from total imposter syndrome/burnout. Billed ~2200 hours for the last 7 years and just spent. Any advice on adjusting to new role and gaining some fresh perspective?

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It’s helpful to know even partners feel this way.

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What are they expecting you to bill now?

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200-300 hours less for business development, which is awesome. It’s more just the realization that there’s little adult supervision at this point and the cumulative fatigue. At the end of the day, a nice long vacation is what’s needed

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I feel like this may be obvious advice, but I would highly recommend therapy in this situation, plus exec coaching. Sometimes you just need help getting outside your own head. I know a few former lawyers who specialize in working with lawyers on the exec coaching side, so if you’re interested happy to share their names. (I also have a few therapist recs but they’re very location specific.)

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Read “grit” by Angela Duckworth. You have it! You have been bruised and battered over the past decade but you will rise again. buy a kickass wardrobe. Therapy is also extremely helpful to regain your sense of self and self worth. Congratulations!

I've heard of new partners taking a 1 month sabbatical so they can come back, start fresh and ready to take on the world. Perhaps an option?

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