If I make eye contact with a girl multiple times at a bar, is that some sort of a sign for me to go up to her and talk to her? I suck at picking up on signals in general so I usually chose to do nothing about it. If it happens again, I want to be aware and not just do nothing about it.😅

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No, it's just eye contact. People observe and stare at other people for many reasons. Honestly she could be thinking that you're a weirdo and is checking you out to make sure.

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Eye contact: don’t approach
No eye contact: don’t approach

Got it 👍🏻

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It depends. Is she looking over at you, or are you looking over at her and she's catching you?

Does she smile or look away or frown?

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Take it from me, a girl: always assume yes and risk the rejection. Most of us are nice and feel flattered even if we aren’t into you. Some girls are b*tchy though but at least you’ll find that out quickly

Also, I get just as nervous when guys approach as they probably feel approaching :)

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You know what I’ve learned? Literally every human being has different ways of showing interest. Are you interested in her? Just go over and try to make conversation. If it works it works, if not then you move on. That’s all there is to it. Sometimes you get laughed at, sometimes girlfriend intervenes, sometimes you realize this person is married… but you’ve got to play to win. You never meet the people you don’t talk to.

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Love the response!

You need to be willing to put yourself out there a little more. Sounds like you second guess yourself a lot.

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Oh yeahhh that’s a problem

Make eye contact, hold a half second then smile. If she smiles back, youre in. This is called flirting before we all just sent nudes.

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If a woman is interested in you, they will make sure you know. Or start talking to you, or ask you for your number/snapchat/ig etc. I’ve only approached 1 girl before in my life and I got rejected because she had a bf. The past 7 or so girls I’ve dated, including my first girlfriend in highschool, were the ones who made the first move and chased. I simply reciprocated their effort

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