If you pinged your colleague for something non urgent and they said they’re at the gym and they’ll get back to you in a little, how would you respond/feel?

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“Okay thanks”

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I would say great enjoy the workout and then wait for a response once they’re done at the gym. why would I feel any type of way about this?

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“Lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part. Can’t talk right now, doing swol dog stuff”

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This ☝️I wish everyone understood this!

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Just saw your response though🤣 good for you

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Lol I’m glad there’s people at the firm that understand

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I’d take notes on finding a little balance myself given the current work environment. If they haven’t let their work quality slip and still deliver, good for them.

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I’ve said it and the response was “great, appreciate it.” Much like when someone says “sorry, I’ve got a sick little one” or “running car pool be back in a bit” - cool, totally get it. If a manager reacted poorly I’d want that to play out so I could run for the hills, it’s a competitive labor market to deal with the level of petty to be upset someone is at the gym unless it’s prime business hours.

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I’d call the police on him/her

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Respond: "Thanks!"

Feel: either appreciative that they're getting me what I need, or frustration with myself for not properly communicating actual urgency

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I’d ask them to show me the gun show 💪🏻

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Is it during ‘normal’ work hours or after 5pm?

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I’ll call their mother, father and next door neighbor about it

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Thanks. And expect it when they get back. We live in a different world right now.

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Right now? Hopefully it’s here to stay. The 8-5 workday and “on demand” culture in the workplace needs to die.

Sometimes I will read pings from folks and purposefully make them wait before I answer. 9 times out of 10 they can figure it out on their own in the same amount of time or less that it would take for me to do it.

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You shouldn’t respond when you’re at the gym. Relax and get the mental break!!!

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whatever lol

Appreciate they have set reasonable boundaries, and learn to do so, as well

How is this even a question?

Tell people you’re working out. I’m working with a partner who told me upfront he blocks his calendar from 11am-12pm everyday to work out. That has spread to everyone block time during “work hours” for life.

I will tell a close colleague or close boss I’m at the gym. I once told a close client I’m at the gym and couldn’t attend a meeting over lunch because I spend my lunch time at the gym. She gladly rescheduled. But I will never tell a mean boss or a mean client.

Take their response at it’s face value. Nothing for you to “feel” about.

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