I’m a 30F looking to ask out a 35M bartender at a bar I’m a regular at. Give me your tips!

Has anyone ever been on an online dating site and saw one of their co-workers on there? 😂 🙋🏾‍♀️

Male 🐠, if you and a girl had a “situationship” but obviously had feelings for each other and it had to end for one reason or another, how often do you still think about the girl? Would she be on your mind as you try to move on?

35F divorced with a kid. I think I will never get remarried or in a serious relationship again. Lots of men don't like dating women with children. At my age either the guys are past their prime, divorced/ing and have to provide half their income to their first wife. Many with kids live on the same street as their ex wives so they can be close to their child. I'm not comfortable dating guys like that. On the flip side there are the ones that were never married, which by this age cont

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

Which dating apps do you think are the best? I'm thinking Match and Bumble.

Are you a female?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

Just out of curiosity: how many of you have had sex with co-workers? Is it common in your social circle? Did it happen at work or outside? How do you get to that point without being inopportune?

What are your biggest red flags when dating someone new?

Looking for 1 female flatmate in 3 bhk (unfurnished) at Riverdale Residencies, Kharadi

Single occupancy rent: 14k
Spacious room with unattached washroom.

Dm if genuinely interested. Have to finalize quickly.

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

Single black female. Late 30s, no kids. Is it better to practice in a smaller market that’s close to major cities, lots of professional opportunities, but no real single professional scene? OR be in a bigger pond/major city with more professional and networking opportunities, oversaturated with lawyers of color, more competition for professional opportunities, but bigger dating pool?

Respectful, exciting M here looking to chat with F 🐠 . Any F fish up for a fun convo? The best connection right now is the one through texts 😇

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

So, how does a first timer go about getting involved in dating apps? How do I start and what’s a good one to use? Last time I dated, only Match existed!! 🙄 (long story, I’m not that old)

My natural instinct is to assume rejection if I have conflict with a partner or don’t think my feelings are reciprocated. I’ll try to bring it up with them, but I’ll say “if you want to end this feel free” so it doesn’t hurt me (and they can say what they really mean instead of sugarcoating). Someone told me today that they just assume I’m not interested because I always seem to “run” but I’m not sure how to bring up problems/feelings otherwise. How do you approach these hard questions?

Has anyone else ever dated a coworker?

If you had to describe your dating life in one word, what would it be?

How do you identify potentials in people?

Can anyone direct me to an interview case example question for the more strategy-minded firms like Vivaldi?

I have 5 YOE and currently live in a HCOL city - I was just offered another Associate Editor position that I really want to take as I can build my resume and network and open tons of doors. Is 90k a lowball in this case?

M in ACN Strat - looking to apply to Northwestern, Booth, Duke, Georgetown. 27 years old with 5 years work experience. Am I too young?

I have received an offer with a 6 month probationary period, during which time I can be terminated with 1 weeks’ notice. Are these normal terms? I just want to be sure and have very little familiarity/context.

If you’re looking for a full-time entry level position or higher (tech, consulting, business), with flexible remote/hybrid work, PM me (:

My CTC will be
Basic 13LPA
FB 7 LPA
Total fix pay - 20 LPA

80c - 1.5 LPA
HRA 3 LPA

Any one please help mi on which tax method will be sutable for me old or new?

My expenses were more than my income for the last three months

How much are you contributing to your 401k?

Those of you that were on Agency and switched over are you producing projects at the same level? Is there operational support? Can you push back on the bad ideas? Are there leaders who ‘get it’?

I am a new associate (1 month in mid-tier firm) and I struggle to get work to fill up the whole day. In honest time, i get about 3-5 billable hours a day. Am I going to get in trouble or fired over this?? I am putting my best efforts when I do get work and I ask for work sometimes. At this point I feel like I am being annoying too…

One suggestion, we had new team build 2 years back. All persons have left , only I am left with current project. even I resigned in Dec but got retained.
Now complete team left and I am only left in project as not getting much motivation to work on . Working as Project lead currently

Any suggestion???

For the people who earned the SHRM-CP, did you feel it was worth it? I have an indirect HR position, been applying for more HR focused positions and wondering if this would help. I got the CAPM (certified associate of project management) in December, but that hasn’t really changed things. Would love some opinions before working on another certification!

Explain to me like I’m 5. Why does the monthly billable hours goal on things like Intellistat change month to month. I’m not hitting hours this year. Last month goal was 158. This months goal is 180.

Is a digital transformation certification worth it? I am considering programs from schools like MIT and Wharton but it’s a lot of $$ and I want to ensure it’s worth it. Anyone do one of these programs?

Someone made disposable Hijabs as part of PPE. Super cool idea!

I have resigned and my agency is not counting my approved PTOs for two weeks. I put notice for 30 days, is there any way I can negotiate? Or is there any law that prevents companies to cancel hard earned PTOs?

Hello, I am a 4 year consultant/veteran looking for a referral for Deloitte, EY, PWC, BCG if anyone wants to connect. Thank you!

Hi all, can anyone provide me referral in Intuit for Machine Learning Engineer 2 (2022-37615), as I’m having relevant years of experience (2YOE) with the matching skillset in the JD. It would be great if someone refers me. Thanks!

Seeing all of these insanely high salaries and comps makes me feel inadequate

I hate it when I'm shopping for dresses and I see one that's really cute, only to find out it's a romper

Just out of curiosity: how many of you have had sex with co-workers? Is it common in your social circle? Did it happen at work or outside? How do you get to that point without being inopportune?

Someone reported me to my manager for being unprofessional because I said " let's shoot for a meeting on Friday". I guess she/he/them etc... didn't like the word shoot.
Why are people so sensitive these days?

What are your biggest red flags when dating someone new?

I didn't apply for a job that would have set me up for the future in the government. I wouldn't have to worry about money or future jobs. My boss had just given me a small pay rise and talked up the future and so I felt good. I now severely regret not applying for the job and cannot stop thinking about it to the point of insomnia and depression. I even contacted the employer but too late. It's a small town and rarely anything comes up. I hate myself and feel like I failed my family. :(

I don’t trust cheese that doesn’t melt

Welp I was in front of the computer the whole day and have no chargeable hours, not sure what I was doing 😳

Confession - I left federal consulting and into commercial because I can do drugs without worrying about my clearance. Thanks for coming to my tedtalk

so sad around the holidays 😕

Anyone else watching the US Open this evening? Who are you rooting for? 🇺🇸 🇪🇸

I delete all the words before the one word or letter I want to correct. 🤦‍♂️

Love how BS credit score is. Got my score up to 800 last month only to go on vacation so my credit utilization went up to 8% due to the increased spending and my score dropped 35 points because I didn’t immediately pay the balance after charging the purchases. I always pay my balance in full each month and have never missed a payment, how is 8% credit utilization determined to be that big of a risk that my score got immediately wrecked, I don’t understand

I drunk texted. It was bad. I wasn’t an asshole, I just said my feelings because I was frustrated about them being avoided. And then I got hardcore ghosted, which is expected but still harsh. Do as I say, not as I do. 💔

New guilty pleasure: Indian Matchmaking on Netflix

Is anyone concerned the push for sexual equality in pay without accordant leveling of parental leave is gonna backfire?

Here’s a hypothetical:

A company has 2 candidates, aged 25-30, equal in every respect save one’s a man the other’s a woman. Maybe the woman is a slightly better candidate overall. They’d have equal comp.

Company considers the woman a riskier bet due to possibility she’ll take maternity leave — and considers the man less risky for his ineligibility to take as much leave. 🤷

Remembering the phrase boomer doomer still makes me laugh

I don’t know what 🤧 means and at this point, I am too afraid to ask

I think people who “kiss” their dogs/pet on their mouths are disgusting