I’m based out of a mid sized city and since the pandemic started I’ve been staying with my family in a smaller city. I kinda realized that the only reason I live in the larger city is for work. My college friends have moved away and I don’t really have anyone there. Every time I visit my apartment I’m bored/lonely. Would I be a fool to move back to my hometown where I can afford a house, be close to my favorite ski hill, be close to my fam, etc? I’m 30 and single for reference.

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No. I have been trying for ages to find out how I can have a home in rural America while work in urban. The remote work thing is making it all possible.

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Good new is, even if you do move home it doesn't have to be permanent. If you have the ability to work remotely it might be worth a try.

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No. If this is what you need and what will make you happy, then go for it!

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