I'm not sure if this is a red flag or if this guy I'm seeing is on to something. I've been seeing this guy for about six weeks. My cousin is getting married next month and I asked if he wanted to be my plus one. He said he wasn't sure because going to a wedding is a pretty big step. I just didn't want to go alone, and didn't think asking him was that big of a deal.

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Not a red flag. That’s not a 6 week step :)

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I get not wanting to go alone, but I don’t think it’s a red flag. It also depends on the wedding. I’ve been to weddings where no one cares about who you bring. On the other hand, I’ve been to weddings where I know the bride would not have been happy if I’m bringing someone who I’m not serious with yet

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Not everything is a red flag. Sounds pretty healthy to talk about it

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