I’m so miserable every day is painful. I want to go tell pre-law school me it’s not worth the debt because you will hate this career and then feel trapped by the debt. And then I want to come back to present day, quit this life-leeching, soul-sucking job and start over doing something else entirely. Too much? Oh well. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

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Never have I felt someone articulate my feels. I used to idolize high achieving lawyers. Now I wince at the thought of what their day to day lives must be like.

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This!!

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Spend all day at the gym and marry rich

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I got the find someone to marry part down, we’re currently working on the getting him rich so I don’t have to work part..

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Start figuring it out now. I am 25+ years in practice and am finally on my exit path to a non-lawyer position after many years of feeling as you do. I was part of a small three partner firm (6 mos.), moved to a 15 attorney firm (3 years), then formed a firm with four others (15 years), and am now solo for almost six years. If it's not for you, move on before you wake up 15 years down the road doing the same thing and feeling the same way like I did. Don't let the school debt be a factor. Fifteen years ago I used a career counselor focused on lawyers transitioning out of law and it was helpful, but my law practice exploded soon thereafter and the golden handcuffs were on for another 6-7 years

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DITTO!!

Absolutely use these feelings to make a change. Don't ignore them! Life really is too short to be miserable. I spent my time at BigLaw checking my bank account as consolation for the misery that was work. The key is to find people who are living a life you would be happy living. If you don't know anyone personally, start listening to podcasts and learning about what other people (outside BigLaw) are doing. After you find something interesting, work through the financial issues then, when you have more information. What are your highest values? Does your life reflect that? Don't forget to consider the costs of things that are harder to put a dollar figure on--your health, relationships, time.

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This. Everything about this. I’m starting to feel more and more confident that I will land on my feet and figure out the financial stuff. But my relationships, my mental health and even my physical health, that’s too valuable. I’m way more afraid of sacrificing those things than taking a leap/risk and finding a career path that could actually bring me joy and fulfillment.

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When did you graduate from law school and what type of law do you practice? It normally gets better after year 5.

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12 years. Too long, frankly. But we all have our own journeys.

I’m sorry to hear this. You may be in the wrong firm. Maybe I’m crazy, but I actually enjoyed being an associate in big law until it wasn’t challenging any more. But I did look at the partners I worked for and respected the most and decided being equity in a large law firm wasn’t what I wanted to do with my life. Though I never regretted going to law school. A law degree is a powerful thing, and you have so many options. Take a hard look at what would make you happy professionally. I can almost guarantee your law degree will help you realize it.

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Thanks so much! I’ve definitely thought about a career coach to figure out what else I might want to do. It’s just hard even planning when I might be able to leave given how stuck I feel with debt. But I know I definitely need to make a change for my own sanity!

If you're interested in the public sector, you'll take a pay cut, but your loan payments will be calculated based on your income so they're less onerous and the debt is less of a motivating factor in job hunting. Plus you can get them completely forgiven after 10 years of service, which mitigates the low public sector salary. You'd likely be happier and more fulfilled outside of firm life.

Unfortunately that’s not possible for me because I already refinanced my loans thinking I was being smart :(

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