In my 20s and almost exclusively attracted to men 40+ but every time I match with one on a dating app they end up being creepy.

Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

Thirty some female looking for a friend and travel companion. I am a no nonsense kinda person and just looking for Pure friendship /(buddy) with someone who lives and likes to travel (no benefits , no relationship, no BS) . Visiting nature spots in the US and around the world is on my bucket list. Idea to have a travel pal who also has similar goals. Not looking for relationship or any sort of dependency.

26/F Toronto, Indian, dangerously independent
Bored of insecure men on dating apps 🤷🏽‍♀️☺️

A few months ago I totally blew a third date with a guy I really liked during a completely hellish period where I was billing 200+ hrs each month. Would it be weird to text him again now?

Any handsome guys in LA? I’m so lonely

Almost said the wrong name in bed yesterday; caught it right at the moment - the low-key panic I felt damn 😳

Girl I went on a date with talked about how much money she makes doing Monat MLM. Anyone know much about this? Legit or scam?

I am having a hard time with the coming out concept. I just talk about whoever I am dating at work with people that I would generally talk about this type of stuff with (1/2)

Any F in the Dallas area looking for casual dating options?

How's the LGBT dating scene at HBS? Are most people single or partnered

Any frenchies around in NYC? Where do you guys usually meet?

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

I live in queens and I’m going on a date with someone who lives downtown. Should we meet in midtown? I’m a little nervous to take the train alone at night. Is it unreasonable to ask him to come to queens? I live by a LIRR stop

Hi all,

There is guy living near my place and i find him really attractive. And sometimes I come across him in the gym. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How to handle this situation?
Any suggestions?

Can a sex less marriage survive if everything else is as great as a couple can have in realistic and non filmy scenario.

For all the men out there, where are you finding girls to take on dates? Is it mostly online dating? Mutual friends? Coworkers?

I’m so tired from dating and looking for a serious relationship, so i just browsed the seeking arrangement website 😐

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

30M here, up for a chat

If you were to choose a career different from the military, which one would you choose?

I love teaching art but am having to teach remotely to 1150 kids, k - 5. Have about 54 amazing elementary art teachers in my district that share SO much! I could retire (34 yrs), but just don’t want to because I love what I do! Feeling like my students aren’t getting what they should because I am struggling with Zoom, Microsoft, safe YouTube, bitmoji, embedding, downloads, editing, etc. Anyone else feeling this way?

Hi everyone, I am actively looking for a change.

I am working as a data scientist in a product based company and having over all experience of 5 years in industry. Expertise in machine

learning, prescriptive and descriptive analysis, data manipulation. Lead a project of predictive modelling. Tools- R and SAS.

Any leads would be much appreciated.

Thanks

Folks - What would an Audit senior manager in US migrating to Canada can expect as compensation from a big 4?

Has anyone ever done evening team check-ins and found benefits to having status updates at the end of the day vs morning? Asking about this in terms of working from home on an audit. Thanks!

Hi there - my company is returning to office next month. Hybrid to begin before they ramp up to 5 days back in office by end of year.

I think the fact they want to bring us back 5 days is disrespectful considering how much work we’ve put in remotely over the last year. Not to mention productivity studies say people who WFH (and have no kids) are substantially more productive.

All that being said, does anyone work at a FinTech/Tech company whose RTTO policy is more flexible? Looking to leave

Is location irrelevant? Been at an agency in St. Louis for around a year and it’s going well, but have an opportunity in Denver at a similarly sized shop. Is the better market worth it or will remote jobs continue to popularize?

Hello,

After onboarding in Deloitte USI Hyderabad do we need to report immediately from next day to office as per hybrid model or we can continue wfh until assigned to project

Does anyone know of companies in financial services that are only 2 or 3 days in office? I’m doing 4 days in office and one day remote and feel like 4 days is too much.

Strongest FS DD practices?

Hi everyone,
I am an Operations Manager and trying to switch to Product Management through APM roles. I have done a 3 month fellowship and 2 projects.
I am from a tier 1 college and yet able to land only a couple of interviews and they keep me on stand by(2 companies so far). They are prefering folks with experience even for APM positions. What is the best way to bag a APM role with just one year work ex in pperations role. Will an internship help?

Has anybody joined VMware recently in India and can share his/her experience of virtual onboarding and 1st week at VMware (like what all things happen).
While I'm excited, I'm little bit nervous too with regards to virtual onboarding.
My onboarding via Workday is complete and waiting for laptop. I'm starting from 31st January. Joining as MTS.

Thank you in advance.

Oppo launched its first foldable phone - Find N 👌

$25k budget, build your best 3 watch collection. Thoughts?!

My initial hypothesis:
1) Omega Speedmaster Pro
2) Rolex GMT Master ii (batman, ideally)
3) IWC petite prince

PSA, you can transfer your car loan to an interest free credit card. Got 18 months interest free with BOA and a 20k credit limit. Transferred my car loan and I am no longer paying interest

My uncle I met a week ago suddenly died. He hid his heart condition from his wife, my aunt. He was having tea in the morning when he had a stroke. She did not have a last word or consider the possibility that he’d pass away so suddenly and soon. She is beating herself up over how he left and they didn’t have a chance to talk that morning. Fishes, sharing this so you call your loved ones today and not take people for granted.

It's true. I skipped lunch at work today because I'm fat and now I'm badly craving 14 slices of Chuck E Cheese's cardboard flavor pizza. 😔

Post a pic of your food and I’ll rate 1-10. Friday food party begins here 🍜

Almost said the wrong name in bed yesterday; caught it right at the moment - the low-key panic I felt damn 😳

Started going to therapy early 2020 and had a few sessions where I really felt like I made a breakthrough and left feeling like I was on cloud 9 after every session. I stopped going (it was the through school and I graduated/covid happened) but recently started again with a new therapist. I am not feeling that “breakthrough” feeling after any of our sessions and see it as more of a burden than helpful - is this a sign that maybe this therapist isn’t for me?

I don’t get the hype about the new Spider-Man movie. Yes, it’s a good one, but why do people think it’s the best one yet? Am I missing something?

Several years ago a gay male acquaintance said he didn't date Black guys. It made me bristle but I was not surprised. Now he's married to one. I feel in a way vindicated every time I see his loving social media posts with his Black husband of like 5 years or so now.

How did he get over his apparent aversion to Black men enough to go and marry one? Where would he be if he hadn't had a change of heart?

I wish there were a tactful way to remind him he said that and watch as he eats his words...

Already slept through the first half of the work day. Happy Monday !

Should you gift your GF who has kids but not with you something for Mother’s Day? 👀 if yes what’s a good gift that’s not over involved ? (Not flowers or chocolates 🙄).

Anyone else who watches Yellowstone think Monica SUCKS? Also why is Beth the only one who announces her age all the time.

Anyone else on here use the app ‘iFunny’ to look at memes daily?

Any book recommendations that are must reads/made a significant impact on you?

Going back to work tomorrow after a 2 week long vacation. Scared to check my emails 😭😭😭

For all the men out there, where are you finding girls to take on dates? Is it mostly online dating? Mutual friends? Coworkers?

I’m so tired from dating and looking for a serious relationship, so i just browsed the seeking arrangement website 😐

Question. I am a female POC. I’m curious what non-poc think about black women who wear hair colors other than natural black-brown in the workplace? I’m not talking about outlandish colors like pink, blue, green etc… The hair colors I’m referring to are like honey blonde ombré or balayage and the current trendy copper color. Thoughts?

Apparently I got mad and called someone an a*****e yesterday. And today I called them like nothing happened. I have zero recollection of this event until they explained the scenario to me word by word. Even then I only remember it vaguely. Should I see a doctor? Or is this common? 😳

I did apologize but they were more upset that I don’t remember this happening.

Deeply afraid of being married to someone like the girl in sex/life on Netflix

When I have more salsa then I do chips, I always pour the crumbs in and eat it up Ethiopian food style