Is it normal for your manager to yell at you in front of a bunch of people in Big 4 or MBB?

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That would be the last time they would yell at me 😊 I would go any extend to make their life a living hell post that

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It's not "normal" anywhere

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I got yelled at more working in restaurants than I did in a decade in the Army.

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Only my wife yells at me. Anyone else, especially at work - wouldn’t take it.

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Yes

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It’s a violation of company values that’ll certainly get you investigated and most likely asked to leave if it happens regularly

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Absolutely not. And if leadership is ok with it you should leave.

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No one yells at me here….(NAMR)

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Never been yelled at or seen someone get yelled at. I’d report it if I did.

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Raising voice is also not acceptable.

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No

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Define “yell”. I’ve had project leads raise their voice and get frustrated. That’s borderline, but not shouting

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No

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Ew.

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We're in a bit of a transition phase. It used to be very normal in the workplace. It's still pretty normal in certain professions and workplace cultures but very abnormal in others.

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Normal... absolutely not! Does it happen? It sure does!

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No

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Next time take your phone out and start filming.

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Time to go looks for a new manager if not a new employer.

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Never seen it happen

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In the US, no. RoW, that’s different.

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At Deloitte (US) my manager scheduled a lunch meeting with me in the office cafeteria. I had been having some issues on the project so I thought it would be a good chance for us to have an honest conversation about what was going wrong and how we could fix it. Instead he proceeded to yell at me about every little thing I’d done wrong, in the middle of the lunch rush in a crowded cafeteria, while dozens of my colleagues watched in awkward, stunned silence

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