Just a question for the ladies since I'm dealing with something like this right now.
Would you want to live with the groom's parents, just after marriage.?
Why/why not

TLDR: Getting over your ex of 2.5 years ghosting you after they said they wanted to reconnect.

I was dating someone for about 2.5 years and then we broke up because of COVID and the long distance was making it too difficult to continue. The break up must’ve been like a 4-5 minute FaceTime because I was very distraught. After we broke up, she started seeing someone else but I was heartbroken and it’s taken me over a year to really get over everything and process those feelings. (Cont.)

I’m in the middle of moving by myself. I’m job hunting, because I lost my last one. My relationship has basically imploded. I sleep a lot on a fucked up schedule because I’m depressed but I can’t afford help, and I only get it when insomnia gives me a break. I’m so done and over all of this. I have so many heavy regrets. Idk how to carry all of this.

WFH parents - what’s your routine and how old are your kids? Struggling to find one for me.

Stupid Question- We have been thinking for IVF and trying to understand with this process, is there any difference in the health and life of the child as compared to a child born without IVF. I did ask this with our doctor and he said casually its all same. This is not to question any doctor but just to really understand what is going to be different with the kid. This is not very old technology and not much studies as well.

Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?

I went to visit another market team in (midwest city) and slept with the market manager. Now we're planning a trip to Mexico. I can't tell if I'm trying to get over my ex or actually interested.....

Planning on telling my parents about my white boyfriend this weekend…. Any tips or words or motivational words please

My wife finally told me last night that she didn't know what I do last night ( I'm a securities lawyer) but she didn't want to sound stupid. Its been 5 years.

For those with successful second marriages, what advice do you have for someone recently divorced (1st marriage)?

Anyone stuck in an unhappy marriage? How do you deal with loneliness of this profession and complicated family life

So much baggage brought into the relationship. 2 years in and just discovered a whole lot more. Its been mentally extremely difficult and it’s changed me as a person. Just venting but feel hopeless and I know my SO is suffering. Wish there was a solution but I’m losing hope

So recently my SO has been accusing me of being in control of when we are intimate (sex and cuddling). She says that every time she wants to I say no - and whenever I want to - she says yes. So it's by default doing whatever I want when I want. It's a gross exaggeration of what's happening - but does anyone ever deal with something like this? How do you say no to something like that - without your partner thinking you're just looking out for yourself or you're controlling?

Hi Chicago - just moved here from the UK (via 7 years in Germany) and looking to make some great new friends.

Moved to River North and into trivia nights, most sports, movies etc and would love to find some people open to adding a city newbie to the group!

42m if that matters 🤷🏻‍♂️😁

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

Hey fellow fishes- I am looking to make some new friends in town and potentially meet a nice woman to start a relationship with; any ideas where should I start looking or start doing? I am thinking of volunteering some of my weekends.

Have you walked away from somebody you loved? And why?

At my uncles wedding in Madrid I remember lying down on the grass in the courtyard after their first dance and crying, my Dad came and saw me, laid down in his suit beside me and asked what was wrong.

“I know my boyfriend wouldn’t dance with me like that at our wedding”

And we just lay there as I cried, and then got up. Had a drink.

Said boyfriend left years ago, and now I have a wonderful man who just asked me what type of dance lessons I want for our wedding next year.

Don’t give up.

Anyone else extreme ? Love the fit life and sometimes will do 2 a days and be ok with eating one meal, but other times will spend the day barely moving and eating on my sofa. Can’t escape fatty life

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

Do T2 consulting firms (think Kearney, OW) and MBB hire experienced professionals WITHOUT MBA (I.e., is a prestigious MBA mandatory in the region?). I already have a post-MBA position

Would tech ib (m&a) be more affected than say Healthcare/pharma ib in an economic downturn?

Any recommendations for good country music like Chris Stapleton?

The best salads out there is made with simple ingredients:

- olive oil
- lemon
- salt

Sales is exactly the same.

The best sales calls out there is made with simple ingredients:

- questions
- storytelling
- tonality

I am in the process of finishing up my MBA but considering also getting my SPHR or PHR cert. Is it even worth it or a waste of time and money?

At a tech company with less than 50 people and $6 M Revenue. Our current maternity and paternity leave policy is not good for attracting talent. 12 weeks for mom only 4 weeks paid and no time off for dads. Curious to know what policy other companies have, and can you let me know size and approx rev of company?

Guys, does Barclays have any projects which works in Power Platform technology ( Power Apps, Power Automate, etc)??

I need a referal

Can someone tell me , How many days Barclays will take to respond to any job applications.


@Barclays #barclays

Are any of your firms providing vaccine exemptions?

What to choose when you can’t have it all: high salary, healthy working environment, room for growth, love of the day-to-day work.

Anybody have a mba consultant/consulting company they would highly recommend?

Joined Amazon non-tech with a base pay cut after an MBA and 5 YOE in finance. Make GBP 178K TC in London (after 7 yrs at AZ).. fair value or time to move? Thanks!

Joining Google in a few weeks and assuming I will be moving to the Bay Area sometime this year. For people who have kids, what do you do about schools? My wife and I are looking to buy a place but most the public schools in the South Bay are rated terribly. It’s good to note we don’t have kids yet but are trying to think longer term. Are schools even considered in the resale value of a house? Thoughts and insights appreciated!

I heard you need to show a net worth of 100% of the loan amount. Have you heard about this?

Any idea what will happen to the classic car market as a result of the war in the Ukraine? Are prices going to come down or will classic cars be considered “safe” investments during this time of crisis?

Obviously all speculation, just curious what others are anticipating or have experienced.

(I am fully aware that this is not the most pressing issue, so don’t jump on me for posing the question.)

I keep seeing people say this is the new normal. But it really isn't, this is a temporary normal.

If anyone is looking for referrals at Servicetitan, hit me up.

I feel like working from home has been the death of my dating life. I used to at least go on 4 dates a month, and I was casually seeing a guy for a while. Post covid, I love my work-life balance but I'm never out. I can't meet people sitting at my desk, and I have no local coworkers to pull me out of the house for happy hour.

Hi all, anybody looking for a flatmate to move around 1st week of April in Pune?

Require Female Flatmate.
Location Pune Office Kharadi
Vegetarian
Non Smoker
Flat available from July 5th.
Within 1km from office in a gated society.
3 Bhk flat with basic fittings including AC.
Rent 40k/3.

Hi everyone,
I have a fully furnished room in an already set and functional flat to sublet. It is located in sector 38 gurgaon, near Medanta.
PS: it’s a girls flat

Hi ,
If I will opt for Zs accomodation for 2 weeks, then will that be deducted from relocation bonus??

Please assist.

Any opportunities open in the CCM team, or marketing related opportunities at ZS? Looking to Evolve, not sure of the right next steps. Any tips appreciated!

anyone up for a chat?

Can anyone help me with a referral at ZS??

Can anyone please share their amazon prime credentials

Hi guys,

How's ZS Risk and IT compliance team ? How is the work life balance and work culture?

How much can I ask for ?

Currently working in a Big 4 having 2.5 years of work experience.

Current CTC : 6LPA

Any update on this front is highly appreciated.

Any ZSer who has taken HPV vaccine?

What's the weekend plans ?

Hi Girls,

Anyone staying at Amanora in Pune, let me know if anyone can join me for an evening walk

If our mental health is not good at the moment, how do we convey it to the team? Most of the folks in my team take such things lightly and I feel weird to let them know about it. So I just have to lie and put a sick leave.
Also, even before friday ends, I start to stress about monday… and I think that is wrong. We should look forward to work and not stress about it but sadly the people around me here make me want to leave the office.
Please tell me what to dooo?

Hello fishes,

I'm a Business Analyst with 1.2 years of experience and currently, I'm trying to switch to a different organization.

I have worked on and have been part of various analysis and case studies in my current project and have experience working on Bridge Insurity tool, Python , SQL ,C#, .NET, Data Structures and Algorithms.

Please refer me if there are any related opportunities in your firm.

Thankyou!

Hey pretty women out there
LISTEN TO ME YOU R DOING GREAT JOB KEEP IT UP!
Appreciate urself as I think women and girls are not appreciated kuch in society and their home.

Is anyone living in Vijay Vihar,AWHO Wagholi?
Beed to know how is the connectivity to ITPP

I've joined ZS in January of 2022. How much hike can I expect?