For those with successful second marriages, what advice do you have for someone recently divorced (1st marriage)?

Hello!
I'm italian, 26 yo and currently working in France as financial analyst.
Work environment is great, friendly and multicultural but I don't like the job at all.
Personal life is not so nice since I manage to see my family and gf every 30/45 days only. Colleagues have their own lives and at the end we don't hang out much.
My dilemma is:
A) going back to Italy at a lower salary with less growth opps but better personal life or
B) Switching my job here and hold on

What would you do?

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For folks in Atlanta!
RE: COVID19 Vaccinations

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Good morning, fish! Don’t forget to drink your water today 👍