Just found out I’m pregnant with number2 not even sure if it will stick but I’m terrified, nervous, and anxious. I got put on a new team. It’s going to be ok, right - Both at work and with having 2?

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Thanks you guys. It’s a scary time and I feel guilty because our son has been the only one for 4 years. But today he said to me, “Mommy, where’s you’re baby?” And wanted to talk about it. So that made me feel really good.

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He will be so happy to have a little buddy. My oldest adores her sister and keeps asking when we’re having “more babies.” It’s hard, especially with the demands on our industry, but it is so, so worth it!!

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It’s normal to be scared of what you don’t know. You got this!

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It’s going to be more than ok. It’s going to be amazing and exciting and great.

You’ve got this!

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You are going to be just fine ❤️

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I joined a new team that was in distress when I was newly pregnant. Having a rough first trimester and couldn’t tell anyone was the worst part.

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It’s going to be awesome!!!

Congrats! It’s going to be more than ok! <3

I’ve got 2 and it’s great. Really hard at first but when #2 gets a little older they keep each other company.

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