Looking for advice: my boyfriend and I moved in together this year and we work from home majority of the time, I’m in PR and he’s in Tech so it’s not uncommon for our work days to bleed into the evenings. But I’m finding more and more that we’ll go days at a time without having a conversation without being on our phones or laptops. We’re both guilty of it but it’s nearly every night for him. Any tips on how to balance wfh and staying connected in your relationship?

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When you're done with work, completely disconnect from your digital devices. Go for walks together without your phones. Cook dinners together. Etc. Basically give each other your full attention, not just half of it. And lastly but perhaps most importantly, have as much sex as you can.

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Block off 30 mins as focus time and eat lunch together

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