Moved to Federal from commercial 2yrs ago.

-Started dating and planning to propose soon
-Best mental and physical shape I've been in a decade -Come home to a loving dog when not teleworking

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D1 for some people, life satisfaction comes before work satisfaction. I can condescendingly ask you whether you are satisfied with spending late nights and weekends on nonsensical work (i.e. most commercial projects) but Im not.

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-Traveling to places I WANT to vacation
-Hangout with my college friends 2-3 times a week
-Use weekends to Volunteer at the shelter


I have no clue why I waited until I was 32 to do this...

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But are you satisfied with having your work being able to be described as “good enough for government work?"

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^he works for strategy&... that’s not federal. I too don’t find much satisfaction in my late nights and weekends doing commercial work

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Hell yeah, OP! Glad you did what was right for you 😊 doesn't matter when you got there

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^S& doesnt have a federal practice in that sense 💥💥💥

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@D1 - took longer than I would've hoped but realized the satisfaction or joy that comes from success in personal life is far greater than work.
Yes, the govt is slow and yes I miss the overdrive mode sometimes but I still like my job and can accommodate other things in life.
My satisfaction in life is not dependent on work anymore 😊

It may be different for you of course and keep rocking it the way you prefer.

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Considering a local project next (in DC) for the exact reasons you've mentioned....might have to do it.

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Congrats, OP! Sounds amazing.

There are trade offs and it is mostly around what people value more life or career at different points in life. What I have done for my commercial clients would take 3-4 years in fed which is where I came from

^ 🔥! Here come the angry federal folks

Aww S1, you’re just goin’ through a phase, it’ll be OK. Couldn’t resist bustin OP’s chops

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