My boss micromanages me but takes credit for my work during big meetings. It's starting to feel deliberate. I'm lost on how to handle it. Thoughts?

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I think it depends on the scenario. I would say my bosses have always taken credit for my work. It’s kind of my job to work back stage to make them look good so it’s never bothered me as long as they recognize the work I’m doing and reward me for it I’ve always felt ok about it. However I can think of plenty scenarios where that same thing occurs but is played out a little different than what I’ve experienced and maybe wouldn’t be ok.
Could you give an example of what you’re experiencing?

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